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Originally Posted by phantomtiger2
Congratulations R&B,
You are already a seasoned samster and getting better with each visit as a monger.
You did the right thing. Never think of yourselve as a Cheap Charlie. It is a psychological game they always try to play on us as they think we are full of nothing but money and try the "guilt trip" on you. You did good by not giving in to this.
She did promise 2 people and you should have just tell her and leave it at that. Since she persisted then she is just using you and again you did well by "running" away. We are now runners on them so at least they know how we feel when they run on us 
Peace bro
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Thanks bro.im still training to be a better monger.i have not done well back running away before they order the 1st round of drinks and food & not firm enought to not pay when all the eyes are on u when the bill is presented to me.wish i had just say why should i pay & walk off.I remember when I was still a newbie I was taken great advantage of as if like we owe them.in Thailand,indo,Msia,philippine they exist everywhere.inviting u to go somewhere then order the food & beer As if like it was a buffet party.girls being their friend to club and shopping then make u pay for even their 'sister' shopping.the hardcore one even request to cover Thier 'brother' expenses as well.
Being generous is one thing.to demand and leech on other generosity is crossing the line too far.u feel like a sucker when u give in to Thier nonsense request & I blame myself countless time for that.I'm maybe seasoned now but not hardcore enough I guess we many samster are too gentlemen at times which is good as nature but not good as a monger.
It's true that we are lucky not to born in poverty but we work our ass off day and night to pay our bills too.these freeloader thinks our money grow from tree.I had a discussion on another forum,PA.there is another sg monger who went thru almost exact situation like mine he barfine a girl from alantis on the way back to hotel they wanted to eat the girl suggested a Filipino restruant & ask if her cousin can tagged along.he agree thinking it's only one girl when he reach there he was surprise with 4gals 3 guys already waiting in there.they order the red horse beer & food as if its xmas party even without asking what he want & have a merry time bill was presented to him when the food is serve.exact same case as me.
He got fed up & join Thier games.order 2 dozen more beer & all the most expensive food on the menu to upsize the party of these free loader Thier face looks like they found gold.he then say he is stepping out for a smoke to the girl & took a Trike back to his hotel.that's my idol.imagine the look of those freeloader later.
