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Originally Posted by Big B
Hi Bro WB,
I think we're thinking the same thing, just expressing them differently.
How about this then. Even if a person is the completely confident man as defined in your post, can this person say he can win every woman he desires?.....................
What if a girl has too much pride to ever beg or show she needs you? Saying "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn." heralds a complete end to a potentially viable relationship. Such a man chooses to walk away because a relationship of "almost" equals is not what he desires.
This dominant male wants to possess, own and control. Essentially, "my way or the highway." Push-pull techniques are simply lures to ensnare the unwary into falling in love with you. By the time the victim(s) realise it, the poison has already spread.
Letting a strong woman "appear" (I cannot stress this word enough) as the boss while you secretly pull the strings is a completely workable and successful technique. The power couple Bill (the thinker/doer) and Melinda (the charismatic "shock and awe" speaker/presenter) Gates is just one such example and they bring out the very best in each other...........................
BTW, I have realised that my topic is on winning a true life partner that helps a man achieve self actualization. Nothing absolutely to do with "Picking up KTV gals outside KTVs" so I shall conclude my little diatribe with apologies for derailing the original intent of the thread....................
Big B
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Hi Bro Big B,
Even if a MAN has absolute self mastery, there will be many, many women (married women n those in love w/ other men, etc) beyond his reach. He is perfectly happy w/ that. Otherwise, there will be chaos...
No, I was not talking abt gals who r "proud," confident, poised, aloof, cool ...n never needy or overly possessive... they hv very attractive qualities, to me at least; I was referring to gals who display
PERVASIVE DISRESPECT towards me. I couldn't walk out on them fast enough.
I know some men who get KC-ed by such "strong" n abusive women who show pervasive disrespect towards them, n chose remain in the RS, thinking that it's a potentially viable RS. It's not, n will never be. It's a very miserable RS for both partners.
IMHO, all healthy heterosexual women r attracted to a MAN w/ masculine character traits, high ranking on the Male Dominant Scale n strong self mastery. If You're such a MAN, u will attract ur true life partner, soul mate, true love, etc., not just a lover or mistress.
My mindset has changed radically since I started this thread in June of 2009.
Now I'm not trying to conquer anything or anyone, or to prove anything to the world. My singular mission n purpose in life is to improve myself, constantly n relentlessly, everyday n in every way possible, to improve others n to improve everything around me...
My interest in n focus on this thread hv evolved profoundly in the last 32 months n are not just abt picking up KTV gals or any gals or even man-woman RS. It's more abt self actualization, self discovery n
SELF MASTERY. My RS w/ everyone else n w/ the world I live in is merely a reflection of my inner true self n my self mastery...
Your comments n criticisms will be appreciated.
Cheers!
Bro WB