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Originally Posted by michkim2
Bro WB,
Good notes on our body language especially when conveying confidence.
Sorry to miss the TAM session last Thu. Hope to join you and other bros to learn.
Always something to learn from reading your threads.
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Hi Bro MK2,
We may hv an outing tonite SH.
Cheers!
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Good morning!
IMHO, a man's eye n facial expressions, voice tone n body language reflect his inner confidence, masculinity n self mastery, which r the most important determinants of his attractiveness to ALL women. PERIOD.
His social status, money, looks, height, weight, age, ethnicity, etc r of secondary importance...
There r many, many BIG differences between men n women.
A female sex guru just sent me an email on one of the differences:
Hello Bro Warbird,
I want you to imagine a woman who can't keep her hands off of you,
who's eager to touch you & kiss you, who clings to your every word
and move. She enjoys rubbing her warm body against yours, even in
public places. She strokes your hair constantly, always has her arm
around you, and can hardly step away from you for a second.
Sounds pretty good, huh?
Now imagine this: A woman is with a man who can't keep his hands
off of her, who's eager to touch her & kiss her, who clings to her
every word and move. He enjoys rubbing his warm body against hers,
even in public places. He strokes her hair constantly, always has
his arm around her, and can hardly step away from her for a second.
Pathetic! He's obviously clingy, desperate, needy and possibly even
controlling!
You see, this is what men so often forget in dating and in their
interactions with women: What might be a turn on and a fantasy for
him- could easily be an attraction killer for her.
Why? Well, using the example above, the male is automatically
turned on when he's been sexually accepted and is "approved" by the
female. This is biology and evolution. However, because women have
had to protect themselves from rape, getting pregnant at a bad or
hard time, and have always had to worry about carrying & protecting
young offspring, a man who's overly clingy, too physical, or
aggressive in his touch & affection at the wrong time, comes across
as a threat.
And when a woman feels "threatened", which this day in time may be
a feeling of simple annoyance to her, she wants to get out of
there- she wants to escape.
This is also where some men get confused (especially politicians,
so it seems) and send women a nude or "naughty" picture of
themselves. The man would LOVE IT if the woman sent such a picture
of herself to him. But, unfortunately, the woman doesn't find this
to be a turn on or so exiting, and she quickly laughs at him, shows
her friends (who also get a good laugh out of it)... and possibly
even shares it with the media or police.
When interacting with women, it's very important for a man to step
away from his "male brain" and understand how women view various
actions. Because what might be wonderfully exciting for you, might
make her head for the hills...................
The woman on your side,
Ms Guru
It seems most men, including some famous Ang Moh politicians, still dun get it, hahaha.
Another example: We men love to watch explicit porn, but most women r completely turned off unless it's merely a part of a romantic story, filmed artistically.
Cheers!
Bro WB