[warbird]

Originally Posted by AvgJoe

Bro WB, well said.

Bro Jaded, may I add that you need to give her hope, but dont give her any promises.

Dont be too aloof else she might think that you are not interested at all. For me, i feel there is no need to purposely take your time to reply SMS. Just appear natural, and reply as per how you would to other friends as well. However, DONT appear needy or clingy else the girl would know that she got you hooked, and you will lose your upper hand. No matter how desperately horny you are, keep cool, be confident and always be in control.

Hi bro AvgJoe,

Good advice!

Neediness n insecurity r most repulsive to women. It's the biggest turn off for them.

Cheers!

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Good morning!

I like to share a msg on "Three “Bonding” Steps to Her Bedroom…‏" from yet another Ang Moh mentor:

Hi Bro Warbird,

Tired of feeling as if you don't know what to say to women?

Tired of watching OTHER men go home with the women you wish you
were taking home?

I would be!

I've been out doing research for you again, talking to prime,
beautiful, thoughtful women about what they REALLY want from men -
and just as important - what's been turning them off recently.

What are they TIRED of... and what YOU can do to LASSOO THEIR
ATTENTION and lead it where you want to go?

Want to hear one of their biggest complaints and how to avoid it?

Then listen up...

You've probably heard women complain that men don't "listen."

We don't. For a few reasons. We often can't follow their logic.
Or we don't want to try that hard. But usually, it's because we
are pretty convinced we have the answer to their problems before
they even finish what they are saying.

Which may or may not be true.

But truth has limited relevance here. What matters, when it comes
to enlightened seduction is FEELING. How does she FEEL about you?
What does she FEEL in your presence? From your body? From your
words.

Want a short-cut to getting her feeling strangely "bonded" to you?

I want to give you a 3 Step Magic Formula for evoking amazing
feelings of LOVE and APPRECIATION from any woman - specifically as
a way to cure yourself of the annoying "premature problem solving"
issue so many men have,

Ready?

When a woman starts telling you about something important,
something emotional, whether about work, family, friends or
otherwise, employ these 3 steps in this order:

Bonding Step 1: Mirror her words.

This means you don't ADD anything, you don't analyze, you don't
solve. You just show her that you actually heard her words and
weren't thinking about LeBron, Giselle, your quarterly reports or
wondering about the shape or color of her areolae.

So if she said, "Sorry I'm not very talkative. I had a hard day
today at work today. My boss is such an a-hole." You say:
"Sounds like you had a tough day."

Bonding Step 2: Validate her feelings.

Whatever your opinion, whatever your thoughts or observations - put
a lid on it! Step two of creating a BOND with her is to validate
that her feelings are justified. Which is a way of "accepting" her
as is, something few of us rarely get from anyone!

So if she says, "My boss just yells at everyone like their fools,
but he knows less than anyone." You say, "You have every right to
be mad at that idiot. You know more than him and he acts like he's
king of the world."

Bonding Step 3. Empathize.

Notice this is the first time "you" came into the picture here.
You have just laid the groundwork for her to feel heard (already a
miracle, in her eyes) and validated (a double miracle!" Only now
to do you up the ante by letting her know that you "feel her pain."

So if she says, "I'm just so tired of working so hard and not being
appreciated for all I bring," only now can you bring your sorry ass
into the conversation and add, "I'm really sorry you're going
through that. It must feel awful. It makes me feel like I'm losing
all my motivation just listening to you describe it."

Yes! Exactly! She will exclaim, as she grabs your knee - thrilled
to be in the presence of such a Prince of a Man, who not only hears
her, accepts her without judgment but who also FEELS what she FEELS.

That, my friend is a 3-Step Shortcut to bonding with any woman.

Short-cutting communications success with woman doesn't mean clever
quips and soaring assholery.

Communications is a step-by-step process of building trust, humor,
authority, inspiration and rapport..........................................

Regards,

Your Mentor




Cheers!

Bro WB