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Originally Posted by vietboy
yes, u r not buying her whole family but marriage is not just 2 person thingie, it is also a 2 families thingie. it include yur parents and her parents. it is not just the 2 of u. marriage is a journey, not a transaction.
Vietnamese are very strong in their family ties, family comes 1st b4 anything. its very different from ours. u want them to give up on their family? No way bro...
i dont know what excatly happened btwn u n yur in-laws, but i believed they dont despise u, they r have happy to have a foreigner as son-in-law. it brings honour to their family. how can they dislike u?
like the bros had said, u need time to educate yur bx n including her parents.
sorry, i nhieu chuyen a bit: can i ask how long u know yur bx b4 yur marriage?
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it really depends on luck.if u have an in law who just want to squeeze until dry from her foreigner son in law,they are happy to have an ATM rather than bringing honour to their family
There is in law who dont do that towards their son in law and i am lucky to be one of them