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Originally Posted by freezone
And if a 3rd party is needed then I volunteer to do so and call for a truce to let calmer heads prevail. As far as I'm concern, most of us seniors here are friends through a mutual "hobby" and interest. I soak in all the great info you guys provide to keep me (and others) updated to make my life easier when I'm there.
From what I understand, The Lord posted some informative post about the thinking and experiences of others in the PI. Just from my POV, those post were very entertaining and like I said, very informative. It may not have any dealings for the casual 1 week visitor to AC (or anywhere in the PI) but it gives great insight to those that may stay longer and what one might encounter (with the pros and cons).
Many have also posted and some have pics that are not relevent to cheonging in AC but once again it is informative (as it shows a side of PI many of us will never see but again gives insight into the local people).
I believe The Lord had very good intentions in posting the various post to keep us informed about what some had experienced in the PI (and just for the record, I've sometimes felt the same as the original writer of the post).
Just remember that it is NOT mandatory to read every post so we could ignore those that don't interest us, but then there are people like me that finds The Lords post very informative. Its always to each own taste and so name calling to others trying to be helpful is also out of line as its easier to just skip the post that have no interest to some and move on.
Freez
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Just woke up and am happy to see a fellow bro come forward to be the 3rd Party.
His cut and paste is informative and well intentioned but personally I find its too much at a time and tiring to digest. But that's just me and I kept it to myself.
Anyway I checked his post and found out that an edit on his post was done while I was doing my 3 liner. Otherwise I would have not replied openly but PM to The Milk Man as requested. No wonder he blew his top.
This line "Actually I was hoping tht dear Master Z would give some advice to The Milk Man." was added while I was doing the 3 liner.
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Originally Posted by phantomtiger2
(then again, if someone was to steal my wife, he will be doing me a big favor and I will have to thank him:  )
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Excellent words for me to read and wake up to and I would probably nominate this quote for an award.
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Originally Posted by Boat collector
I agree, I too don't look at how much money I spend while there and expect an equivalent return for it (ROI). Because I am there for short time, you know, that I am slightly more free with my money, as having a good time it that short period is what I am looking for. ONLY BECAUSE I am there for a short time, PHP100-200 I don't bother to count so much.. BUT if I was a long term player like some of the brothers, I would definitely change and even PHP1-2 will make a difference.
And too much of a good thing, sometimes can be bad too.. hence the normal girl would make a change from the BG and waitress.
To end off. Interesting difference. So what do you think the girls on DIA are after? to me one of two things. Money or Marriage. If not why else date a guy twice or three or four times their age? It cannot just be about the great company that us brothers provide, we generally don't share much in common with these girls. In order NOT to break their hearts, I wonder why lead them on in the first place.. to what end? Friendship? I generally don't bonk friends.. unless they are super duper hot! hehe
So maybe sex tourist is the wrong word, especially for all the experience long time brothers here - the thrill of the hunt seems to be more important that the kill itself - BIG GAME HUNTERS?... but at the very least a player.. and someone not willing to be totally committed to just 1 person - and ultimately interested in sex if we can get it.
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BC, you are very ok in your present mode of cheonging. If I was in your situation, I would also strive to do the same route as you re treating and handling the girls.
Most filipinas come to AC with the aim of earning money to send back home for family's needs. It's their doing their part since they now come of age. Sex to them is enjoyable but they usually blank out their mind when you are between their legs.
Being brought up as staunch Catholics, sex to them is TABOO. But for their family, they will SACRIFICE. Landing a permanent partner/sponsor is preferred but in the end, it is all about the money. Before I get shot on this, I agree that there are exceptions. GFE will be given to the man if it will lead to securing the DEAL.
My hats off to you for this line > "In order NOT to break their hearts, I wonder why lead them on in the first place.. to what end?". Treat the girls well and get our kicks but don break their heart. We like to take the newbies as they arrive but they are the most vulnerable.
Some of our brothers here have asked me to help send their friends in AC small amount of money through Smart Padala/Money and I am fully agreeable to this practice. I usually send 300-1000p with a sending of a txt from my Smart roaming sim. An excellent move to nurture that special girl for our next trip at a minimal cost. Beats going to a Western Union counter and being inclined to send 3300p since we already took the effort to get there. If any regular here needs my help to send small money, then PM me.