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Originally Posted by Scorp888
To bros DO YOU BJ, lovetogive, and other bros,
Thank you very much for sharing your experiences and your advice. I will take them seriously.
I will be extra careful to dig up everything about her background when I got the chance before committing. (She was already in Sg for 5 yrs before she met me, so she had made some Sg friends). Recently she went back home to CQ for 2 weeks to be with her family, she asked me to go back with her so that she could intro me to her parents but I was too busy. I will test her and check on her more thoroughly without her knowing just to see her real character.
You can bet your ass I will be checking on everything about her.
But if the problem is with the entire PRC Chinese women population who can easily walk away from donkey years of "love" relationship and not feel a thing, then I guess all S'pore men are in danger. Like bro WB said, I think I better start having another one on the side, just in case.
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Remember why they came here for.
SURVIVAL!
But the occupation they chose is no diff than those who came on S-PASS and hold even real professional jobs.
Before u embark on someone from another culture, u must understand theirs!
Those that come here wud not want to do a basic jobs that even pay RMB3k a month, here earn SGD1k = their RMB5k liao
Its all in the numbers
Women like then aint stupid, they know u want to get into their pants.
There are 3 kinds:
1) Will tarik you n milk as much as they can from u during this period.
Once they sense the line gonna snap. they will let u get into their pants
2) Will allow you to get into her pants 1st then say ur the one they've been waiting for, want to marry you, your genes perfect for her off spring blah blah, this will allow u to let ur guard down n then FEEL OBLIGATED to feed her monetarily
3) Will do the above 2 process but it comes in a package deal.
After doin 1 & 2, they know that there are issues of distrust on the man's end thus the end is near.
This is when they will let go a SOB SOB story n seek your compassionate self to give more.
They will then in the meantime be already activating their stby or be on the look out or get their sisters to start introing them other potential cows to milk.
The cycle is on going till they expired.
Let me relate to you one of my latest dumped chick from Dalian.
She left our shores for home in Oct2011.
Many of the bros gave her the ultimate thumbs up for character etc etc
But i dun trust her!
Even if i did say i did in front of my bros n her, it is to make her feel that she has entered my comfort zone.
I started to dig, using reverse psychology & remember in great detail everything that she ever told me to the letter for thru experience, I know words they say, will always be twisted or changed in the future.
If an incident did happen to u in ur life, how is it possible for you to forget how in started & ended?
Not possible rite?
Little things says the most.
We met up in KL once a month for 2wks at a go from Nov till last month.
It was during this period, that my acquaintances in DaLian came back wif very interesting info about her that she never told me.
She was a KTV hostess in PRC since 19
She then became a mummy
Then she went to learn Japanese cos the spenders there were Japs and in Dalian, Japs r hot commodity.
She did ST
Managed to KC a PRC man who spent RMB500k to open a pub for her.
She cheated on him cos he said he'll marry her but not yet so in her mindset, cheating on him was acceptable cos she said he was buying time wif me, for all you know, he may be playing me!
My reply was, playing you open pub for you in your name at RMB500k still call playing?
When he found out about her cheating, he begged her to come bag which she did, and made him buy her a new HondaCRV for if i can remember RMB180k which she's still driving now!
So in the end after they broke off, she sold off the pub took the proceeds and kept the car and cont'd wif that guy she was cheating wif.
She has a fulltime stby Jap old man more than 50yrs old who BY her for more than 5yrs & they're still in ctc.
When she went back, she told me she'll prove to me she will cut off all ties wif her past etc etc and change numbers so that no one in her past will be able to find her.
Well, I never deleted that number.
Yes number was terminated n guess wat, 1wk ago, i was goin thru my phonebook & saw the old number, gave it a ring & yes, it's reconnected again!
Wat does this tell you?
Oh she's not SYT but she is attractive and has a fantastic body n looks good born 1981!
How did i suspect her?
Well, just after she landed and just completed her body checkup here n passed, I consummated her.
Her actions rang all my bells!
Yes, i did her raw and she actually pulled back my foreskin and examined my dick before she put it in her mouth.
And her tongue action, damn fucking good, twirling pattern.
No normal gal wud know this and do such stuff unless a professional whore.
See, all these little stuffs they do, say and forgot what she say & wat you said often is a sign that she has too much to remember.
WLs always forget what they said & u said.
Best way to catch them is to cook up a story they said, twist it a little and make it a conversational topic wif them.
See how they tango n u will know liao.
Then when it all goes haywire, throw the bomb at them, n chances r, they'll say it u who got the story wrong.
Always same pattern!
When this happen, u know to treat them as meat!
Bro, lets put it this way, y wud a divorced woman come all the way here to do what she's doin?
U mean she cant find a job there?
Do not be so intuned to what's she's doin now etc but know the root of y she's here.
From there, u will be able to piece up everything & most importantly, check her phone or install tracker software.
9 out of 10 chances r u will find out something u never wish u did!
N dun bother to question them, they will cry & say all kinds of BS to get ur softer side out and into submission!
Just enjoy the process and the sex, the companionship but always remind yourself, 她只是个过路人,路过了就结束!
Find new meat after.
U know y i say it like tat?
Cos they wun do it any different!