[fallen.angel]

I realize there are singles out there so what I said about not giving them anything more than I’m willing to give, in monetary or non-monetary terms, and therefore not expecting anything more from them, that’s just me. Call me jaded but you enjoy their company and the other stuff but you don’t sacrifice your life/family. Last thing people like us want is a sticky gf who will threaten to cut herself if you don’t give her enough attention right? So I don’t really care what she do behind my back… I always use the exact words my gal used on me last time: 你有你的生活，我有我的生活。

But for the singles who genuinely wants to marry a PRC gal, then I’ll leave it to the experts here to give their take. I’ve just seen and heard enough to draw my own conclusion.