Firstly, I am not master
- just burnt a few times to tread carefully is all I can say .. I am sure many experienced ones also out there ..
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Originally Posted by manilaboy2007
Deal with pinoy cannot be desperate as must eat them, I take it as a kind of courtship. If ok go for it, if not, can still be friend di ba? I have a girl who I known for 2 years, never kantut her or what..but when I met her again, the next thing we end up in hotel. Sometime small but long investment do paid off. Just have to understand the complicated pinoy mentality. hee
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hence for me too - I manage my expectation - don't expect to bonk first time I met ..
I met some girls from Cebu Pac ground staff - the first one, very slippery, but introduce her friends .. first day, she come with a friend for dinner, nothing we bye --- and that gave me yard stick - she don't ask gifts, and no demand - I also don't expect much ..
Next time we met, she came with another friend and the friend casually asked me if she could stay my hotel room since she don't want travel back home .. and casually asked if my hotel have pool ! I say yes, and she did her level best to play innocent and then sneaked out of her friend's sight to appear in my hotel, when we dispersed.
Moral of the story - a few hundred peso investment - maybe not more than 1000 peso (how much is it here ? 30 plus S$ ?) for each meal - much cheaper than fine dining here .. reward - great ..
Of course, having a Philippines number works wonders, as I could communicate discretely ..
Of course, the main reason why the girls don't like hit and run is they told me many times - a lot of guys become super glue - they want the same girl, keep bothering them, or trying to ask them to meet - hello ? did you forget that she also may have a BF ? and her own friends circle, she may be look down if they find she screw a foreigner .. that's the middle class .. As long as you don't say it loud, but give out the right vibes, it works ..
Of course, my fall back plans always include a FL whom I can call over to the hotel room - if no score .
Oh, I did also write about the Travel agency girl, who, while courting a filipino guy in Dubai stayed over my place just for fun .. I was quick to move to a different room when the warning signs came out .. I am not going to monopolise my time with one girl, but then again, I am not the kind who says "WHAM BHAM .. "
Oh, again, don't force yourself on any girl - well, even when drunk, remember, filipinas may not say no easily, but if you screw them when they are not comfortable, bad Karma will haunt you - and all your bridges maybe burnt sooner than you can think ..
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Originally Posted by manilaboy2007
As for Bora, I went coz of gf if not I prefer to go El Nido or Bohol to relax. Too much Koreans everywhere in Philippines....spoil market man.
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Bro, El Nido expensive lah .. next time, I give you other suggestion
As for Koreans, yes, everywhere .. and the low earning crowd has started to realise that not all men come in horses with shining armour to save them .. and the taboo has slowly waned away .. and it is not unnatural to see a pinay with a Korean .. or for her to have Korean sponsor / financier .. oh, that's another market - met some friend of a friend - husband spending money for the girl, while the girl, unlike the ones I seen in Singapore - those marry Singaporean and splurge husband money on friends .. type - this girl, she carry herself, pay for her own flight and shared all expense, when I sneaked out to PP !!!
As I said in the Maid thread, Patience rewards .. even if you are FUGLY (say, like me) being humble and patience can win over .. no kidding ..
If I am handsome, cue the previous comment I made of women throwing themselves over the guy - I am not handsome - I have to work and work my way .. so far- it's been good ..