troysteel: sorry, not to offend you .. but if you are so "GOAL ORIENTED" and want to score on first date .. I just decided that I should not introduce my friends to you
They may be mighty offended and send a Hit squad after me .. no sir, thanks but no thanks !!!
Ah come on .. you cannot even spare one day of waiting ? no comments
Maybe somebody more experience than me can assist you ..
As for BoinKing's Modus operandi of getting the girl drunk, well, not my style - I worry about the backfiring the next day .. rather with consent than not ..