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Originally Posted by SingViet
Trusting your spouse is necessary to get the relationship going, but trust is earned, not given. I find Singaporean husbands very accommodating to their viet spouse, she can do whatever she wants and the Singaporean husband will not object even if he is not happy. For example, my wife's friend will give her daughter and husband fish sauce to drink when they are down with fever. The husband knows its not right to do that, but he dare not voice out . There are times when we need to voice out and not be taken for a ride. Due to cultural differences, i would say its good to have a lower level of trust during the first few years of marriage. As time passes by, higher level of trust can be given after more time together. Too many bros here see too much positive aspects of viet culture and i will say you are putting yourself at much risk. Don't just know the good, do find out about the bad too. When you start to discover about the negative side of their culture, you will start to feel scary.  |
confirm,chop and sign on what u say is true.I am the opposite.During my early stage of marriage,i am not accommodating to my wife,i will voice out if i know is not right,my level of trust is at a low percentage during the first 2 years.
In short i dont please her but slowly the trust level increase as times go by.I already get 'shock' by her already and now if got other shock to me is also 'bo $$$$$' liao
