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Originally Posted by jf66312
i had similar situation before and learnt my lesson...
key is never go to her work place when she is working..
you have already laid your terms but she still request to work...
if u visit her at her workplace, u will feel emotional and like she said , she wun be able to concentrate on working when u are there like this..
this will make the relationship turn for the worst...she will give u up sooner or later if this continues as her obj is already very clear...
learn to let go and pull back as and when needed..if you really love her , then respect her decision and learn to build trust..if both of you are able to build up trust level then u can proceed to talk about marriage....
this is my opinion..  |
looks like u didnt see my post...post again for your ref in case u didn see it..
it is normal that u feel that u have requirements becoz deep down u feel that u are paying her $2000...
both of you need to come to a mutual understanding if u want this relationship to last...
unless u offer her $10k a mth and she definitely no need to work already..