Quote:
Originally Posted by casannova03
It does not matter to us really! What's important is that you know well what you are doing and what you can afford..if from what you say you do not have any substantial savings then giving a VB 2k per month while your future is in doubt sounds silly... really
But as the saying goes, when you're in it, you would think nothing is wrong. The impact will hit you when you're out of it...but then again, who are we to judge your relationship with her for we do not know anything about her.
It would be prudent to start saving up for yourself and your future...this i can say for sure you have to start...somewhere somehow....who knows when you try to cut down on the money, you will then see the REAL gal! - it can be good and only good:
Good - she understands that you want to save up....maybe you can tell her for the wedding for both of you or some well-intentioned goals. If she understands and stand by you and accepts it. Then, you could very well have a gal who is ready to go thru thick and thin with you for the person that you are and will support your decisions...
BETTER - she says ok but then starts to get busy, day by day. Lazy to meet you, must earn money etc etc. You know all the signs and symtoms right. Then you'll know that all along you've been taken for a ride. Well, so be it! this can only be for the better no?
The ball in in your court....remember this!
Good luck!  |
So you are the grand master . thanks for advising .
We meet everyday twice for the whole week , We did not talk about money and sometime i ask her how is her sales . She say don need to ask her she don like to say . Yesterday there is old customer jio her go clark quey thai disco but she rejected because she know i might be upset . She meet me instead , She told me last time she went out with him he give her $200 for 2 hour for acompany . I ask her to go since he so nice (of course i think diff) she say NVM she told me last time the customer did ask her go ON but she rejected . when we are eating somewhere ard her working places the customer went in mask to look for her. She receieved his sms and i ask her go back mask again don worry me But did tell me to wait for her somewhere .
I guess the customer is a Big fish , my girl just went in about 20min and he give her $50 for tips. After that i send her home and chat for 1 hour plus and i go home . So Far So good i also hope we can end up together, I hope but will not think too far also.
I did have saving But after i known her i i cannot save any money also . I will never touch my saving unless really we marry and for the wedding dinner . i planning to joint the account with my mother in case i kana KC till lost sence.