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Originally Posted by Yoshi Chiong
My Girl ask for RMB 10K to Bao her. I did give once an even went to her home town to visit her family. After that kind of regret as she still secretly work
Which I found out later. Though she still insist she did not. ........
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Sorry to hear about your bad experience.
Bao'ing a girl IMHO is not a science but a very finely balanced art. There is no hard and fast rule as to which situation warrants Bao'ing a gal, and even if your heart - and dick - really wants to Bao a particular girl, you must first figure out if she is a suitable candidate AND if bao'ing her would be "good" for both of you.
And I emphasize good for BOTH, for if she goes into the arrangement with ideas way different from you - well...it for sure will end in disaster for both.
Just my POV
SEAN