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Originally Posted by jklpoi

Yeah true, just maybe 1 mth ago, I also thinking the same thing, marry marry love love, yhought very simple, but now enlighten. Lucky is we really love each other, so love do play a part in staying together after marry. One more lucky thing is also I have car have hse, and have a quite high paying job.

Only after marry do all the real problem come out. you will find out that the money u think u can save on NT going cheong after marry is not enough to maintain a married life.

Last time cheong finish every month have money left. Marry think no more cheong or cut down means can save money, who knows after marry, no cheong, lagi worst, every month no money....salary come in right pocket, go out left pocket.

Zion, I only 3 yrs older than u. I made what I think is the best choice in my life when I marry my bx...
Now think back, why cant I make the best choice of my life much more later...

i totally agree, after married then all the problem comes out. sometimes my ba xa like finding things to quarrel with me, lucky our baby is keeping us together.