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Originally Posted by Peacock29
Plans changed. Anyway thanks for all your info bros, really appreciated.
My supposedly a surprise visit to my BX was foiled by her. Told her i am working and will be uncontactable for 24hrs. KNN then she super emo, near die liddat. Bo bian say the truth lo, lousy liar or she know me too well?
Change flight to Sunday and she insist of coming to HCM to fetch me as i never been to Rach Gia, Kien Giang.
I should register myself to this club, although slient reader for this thread for nearly 6months, but still i feel VB sometimes really hard to understand.
A brief background.. i propose to her after a 6 months or so courtship. ROM dec this year. She is back home preparing documents and renovate house after Hungry Ghost. She is also on the process of selling her coffeeshop and motorshop and come stay with me in SG after marriage.
Some questions:
1) Why she is so particular in me calling her bX in everyday conversation and even in SMS? And i must address myself as OX vice versa? Too used to type me, you, i for the whole of my life, sudden change very hard to get use leh.
2) Man marry woman always need to spend money right? Well, she is so calculative in saving my money even though i feel it is NEED TO SPEND. Always her reasons is save for baby and for the future. Always her reason to me " Ox oi, you know when raining? " (simply means save for rainy days)
Ok, i know saving is good. But i feel need to spend means need to spend. i mean save so much, you also dont know when you die right? (well, i am talking little extreme, hope bros understand my POV) And she will blah "money cannot buy love" i talk somemore i get a big IM MOM!!
3) I am suppose to meet her father, (her mother passed away since young, she had been acting as mother to 2 sisters since young) this trip. What should i expect? What should i give as gift? I ask my BX, haha maybe bros guess it, she say no need. If need she will buy and write my name. But seriously i dont care, i feel i really need to buy something. Bros please help me out here suggesting.
I have until sunday now to prepare. Kindly give some advices / feedback / suggestions. Positive Negative all are welcomed. I may add on to my questions if i thik of any.
Thanks in advance bros.
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I salute u! U very Gung-ho, dare to go to her province 1st time alone even though u never being there before. I only dare to go to my wife's province alone after i have been there twice with my wife taking me, after i know more or less where and how to go. Me too tried to pull the same stunt but same as u foiled by my wife. LOL . Guessed they just know us too well.
Congrats to u for finding a very understanding and caring wife. My advice is you should listen to her, dun be like me... What she is doing and what she is planning, is for the future good for the both of u and yur future kids. Listen to her, no harm, no wrong.