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Originally Posted by aakumu
Hi bro,
Appreciated so sound advice, as I am at a lost.
My humble two cents.
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There can be many reasons why a gal attitude changed... some examples:
1. It's part of their plan... it's call 放长线钓大鱼... if you play with feeling, this usually hurts the most...
2. Along the way, they become greedy and expectation increase ... maybe they know that you are rich
3. They got influence by their sisters, the fact that you will never really love her... so dun be stupid to commit to one guy... get as most $$ out from him as possible while he still love you...
4. She found out that you are playing with other gals... so she decided to take revenge by squeezing you dry... I have seen this before...
There are of course many other reasons.
Experience cheongsters will cheong with $$, while younger cheongsters will tend to put in more "real" feeling, as they really enjoy that kind of romance with the gal... Nothing wrong with that, but always be mindful of what might happen later, just be careful, and you are alright.
I have also seen good examples;
- my friend met an OY gal and got married, now with kids... together for many years now
- my friend's gal went back hunan, but everytime my friend go CP, she will come over to look for him, although he only give her gifts and not cash
- etc etc
I will believe that they are still good gals around in CP who will really love a man or customer. They sell body for $$$ doesn't mean they can't fall in love. For me, I prefer the gal to have their own live, so I prefer not to bao them. One of my gal still goes to work, but she put as 不方便 every day, and she will call me or video call with me every night when she reach home. I will tell her i'm not rich, so that she knows i'm not a big fish, and i dun give her too much extra. In my last trip, i ran out of cash, she even rejected my money and offer to pay for my hotel. Of course i wanted to test her too. Well, is this consider 放长线钓大鱼? But for sure, i'm not a big fish cause i never give much extra. So i'm enjoying this game right now, but i'm always cautious that this is not a long term game, and while I do lie to her sometime, i expect her to lie to me sometime too....
Btw, i have also seen gals who will stick to a guy not because of his money... but because that guy give her really good sex everytime!!! haha....