[leaseoflife]

Just my two cents worth relating to previous posts on paying for LDs. You can and may agree or disagree with me

For me..i enjoy the company of gals and a good time in agg. Yes it takes some bahts but it is not too much considering what i used to pay at sillypore thai disco. on average.. my bill will be ard 1200 with a few LDs for a few gals with me.

I also tend to spend more when i bring my usual gal to her bar to pay for bf. Whether it is a ripped off or not..i guess it depends on how you look at it. i enjoy the pride that my gal has in showing off e generousity of her customer (aka me). to me.. it is not too big of a deal given it is ard S$50. And perhaps the decency of her friends to ask me no need buy so many LDs help to keep the costs low. So far.. i have a few such instances...maybe bec i am a regular customer of my gal. and my gal do keep a close tab on the bill to ensure i dont overbuy.

But the point is that..it can be a small investment for a great gfe And of course.. it helps when we are on holiday and not working locally. If the intention is to keep e gal for a few days.. think this may be a gd investment (and we dont go back to the bar everyday).

One more thing that i usually do once i know the gal better is... i give her my wallet to pay for the bill in e bar. While guys are expected to pay for bills somewhat in thai culture.. giving her access to my wallet gives her much face. Of course i normally do not carry much cash with me so no worries about it being stolen. And the thing is.. if your gal is nice to u... she helps to manage whats left in it so that u do not overspent and yet big face value to her. We end up eating at the street bec she saw i was left with a 1000bht. I even give her e perogative to give tips to her friends and never once it was excessive. Usually just 100bht to 1 or 2 of her good friends for luck. And i like the fact that they refuse sometimes bec i have bought LDs for them. So all in all... it reaps great rewards.

Sceptics may say there are motives such as ensuring you have enough to give her when she leaves. I am agreeable that this may happen. But at the end of the day... if we want to have a good time.. this is one investment i will not save. But of course... pls do have both eyes open.

Again... my two cents worth. Just 4 sharing...