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Originally Posted by deathnitez
Fellow bros I am no sifu pls..... I just share my experience. I believe other bros are better just haven share their skills yet.  |
Dear bro deathnitez,
Tks for sharing. You're a very humble man.
Cheers!
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Good afternoon,
Great sex has different effects, both physical n emotional, on men n women.
If a man gives a woman sexual pleasure she has never experienced w/ any other men, she is very likely to become sexually addicted. Even if he is the antithesis of her type, in every way.
Most women has never had PVO, which can be so intense n so prolonged that it's life-changing.
Almost all men can experience orgasm which is relatively weak. How many of us moan n scream uncontrollably n INVOLUNTARILY when we come? The key word here is INVOLUNTARILY.
If a woman gives a man sexual pleasure he has never had w/ other women, it's very unlikely he will be addicted to her solely because of great sex. If he already likes her, he will like her more. If he doesn't already like her, he will still not like her, despite the great sex.
Here is an article from a relationship/sex guru giving advice to women on how to get men addicted. BTW, the guru is a man.
This is very useful because, like they say, “知彼知己,百战不殆"
3 Simple Hints That Make A Man Addicted To You . . .
Hint 1: Understand what sex actually means to a man.
Every day through my blog, podcast and Facebook wall we get dozens and dozens of questions from women wanting to know what sex actually MEANS to men. "Why do men want sex so much?," they ask . . . "If I sleep with a guy does it mean we're getting married?," they plead, "I met this guy and he wanted to tie me up on the first date and bring his ex girlfriend along . . . do you think he likes me?" they beg. (Uhh. Run.)
And again and again I have to repeat ONE big lesson.
Sex doesn't CREATE emotions for men but it does REINFORCE emotions for men.
If a guy already likes you and sees you as "girlfriend material," then sex (good sex, anyway) will make him like you more and maybe even create a little bit of "love."
But if he just sees you as "hookup material" or a "friend with benefits" that's not going to change no matter how many crazy positions you learn or how long you can hold your breath.
The main lesson here is that sex is incredibly important to men (we think about it all the time) but it's not always EMOTIONALLY important. Unlike most women a lot of guys can have dirty, amazing, athletic sex with women they have no feelings for at all and have that not change a damned thing.
Sucks, huh?
So . . .
Don't sleep with a guy to "Make him like you." It won't work. But DO sleep with a guy if he already likes you and you'll "hook him" like a particularly randy trout.
Which brings us to . ..
Hint 2: Worship his package like some religious idol.
OK, let's be honest. . .
Men LOVE their packages.
Love them.
The emotional connection a man feels for his genitalia is something between love and obsession. Men take a crazy, ridiculous and unhealthy amount of time thinking about their genitalia, what their genitalia is feeling what it WANTS to feel and how they can make it feel more.
And because guys love them so much we want YOU to love them too.
I know, I know, they are ugly little shriveled tails hanging off the front of a man (until they're not).
But a POWERFUL masculine dream is "THE POWER OF THE PACKAGE."
Just watch any pornography made for straight guys and you'll see this (incredibly unrealistic) effect in action.
A man simply unzips his pants and suddenly the demure housewife becomes as slick and hot as a water slide on the 4th of July.
Yes, it's ridiculous. But it's also hard wired into men's minds and simply understanding the deep connection a man has to his package (instead of mocking him for it) gives you incredible power.
If you want to get a guy busting down doors to get to you simply send him a text saying . . .
"I can't stop thinking about your package. . . if you were here right now I would . . . "
And make sure to TALK about it while you're having sex too. I promise, he'll like it.
Hint 3: Give Him Sexual Power Over You . . .
OK, this hint is actually a little bit of an extension of number 2 (insert Extenz one liner here) but fundamentally men get off on being able to give women an incredible time in bed without necessarily having to do any work for it.
Actually, here's a funny example.
A few weeks ago I was hanging out with a couple I know in California.
The woman (a hot single mom from Eastern Europe) had gotten one of my programs.
She decided to test it out.
"I can't stop thinking about your arms and how safe I feel in them. You're amazing."
Then she heard the rapid steps on the stairs as her boyfriend RAN to see her. He busted open the door with a lustful smile on his face ready to sweep her into his arms . . .
And then got red faced and a bit embarrassed when he saw my program on the screen.
Anyway . ..
Notice a recurring theme in these "3 Hints?"
They're psychological.
Just like for women, for men sex is 95% in the mind. No amount of "weird tricks" or running your nails down his
chest is going to affect a man as understanding the primal desires of his mind.
Best,
Mr. Sex Guru
Thanks for reading. Comments n criticisms will be appreciated.
Bro WB