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Originally Posted by purepulp
Guys, its not good to push the boundary if your partner is not completely ready. A huge huge part of the lifestyle is trust. For example, she needs to trust that you will defend her boundaries if some guys get too pushy (very common). She also needs to trust that you know the boundaries and will not go beyond them with another lady.
Communication is very important and both parties must be ready and willing. When it happens, it will be at the point of no return... we are talking about jealousy and insecurity issues here (both for you and her) and you know how ugly those can get.
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Very good analysis here, understand the situation for a better approach, upz.