[Willamshakspear]

Give it time, brother. No change is gonna come overnite. Just be yourself, with a willingness to not just talk, but to act with understandings too. Actions will always be louder than words.

She is a Singaporean woman too, & they too are educated. It will take time to sink in. Furthermore, being a health worker in this terrible covid era would have taken a toll on her mentality. While most of us will live with this endemic courageously, the chances of her being infected is far higher than most, & seeing suffering mostly of the elderly, would have affected her mentality & mortality even if she is not in the risk group of 1%, being young.

We men are mostly mentally stronger than women. Be there for her, not by words, but by actions of love, the love that made both of you commit to each other.

Divorce may just be a word, but it comes with many, many PRACTICAL considerations, especially for men, not just financially but emotionally broken too. For the Sporean women, they may have financial security after a divorce, but with age catching up, looks & mentality will fade, & her options for a lifelong partner is far far limited than a SYT.

None needs to suffer. No Human is born to be lonely, more so after when we each experienced unconditional love in its purest form by parents, which can be duplicated in degrees to another that we seek to further the journey of life...