Difficulty controlling ejaculation
Sharing my issue. See if anyone have any advice.
I have an odd problem. I have “selective” premature ejaculation.
So what do I mean by “selective”?
Let’s separate the easy cases first.
Normally for HJs, if the lady is decent looking (I specifically dislike chubby ones) I will take around 5 minutes to finish (assuming I am not under alcohol or am under the weather). So while I would like to enjoy longer, I think 5 minutes still okay.
For blowjobs, maybe because not as tight as handjob grip, I can usually last 5-10 minutes depending on how excited I am and how “full my tank” is. If the lady is chio and blowing nicely, obviously I shoot faster. But still will have some lead time before I surrender.
For FJ, this is where my problem lies. Decent looking ladies I can’t last long. Maybe a couple of pumps and I feel like my seal is about to burst so either I stop and rest (such a spoiler) or I pump a few more times before surrendering. I tried to go for priligy. While it helps, I still find I surrender too fast (unless I slow down to be like a half functioning piston that pumps slowly).
My suspicion is I produce a lot of cum so my “internal pressure” is high hence always hard to control. I tried to train up my starting and stopping myself but I find I always have that pressure build up within a couple of seconds.
Any one with similar experience or advice?
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