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Originally Posted by Lordofkorat
1. expectations set before marriage.
2. mutual understanding, im going drinking with my friends, wife dont ask so much.
3. yes they provide well for the family.
4. there is a 4th point though. a certain respect of status, they dont do it so often. and still have a healthy sexual relationship with their wives. keep the wives feeling wanted.
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Yes, all of the above is true in my case.
1.This was discussed long before marriage.
2. Wife knows i am fucking around, not drinking with friends but she doesnt ask details about who and what. She does joke around with me about "all my girls" though.
3. Yes I take care of her very well. But I am not a SD. She has a good high paying job herself and we share household expenses. But I cover the extras like vacations etc.
4. Yes we still have a good sex life together as well and are totally in love with each other. The sex outside for me is no different than going to dinner with friends. It doesnt change anything in our relationship except it makes me never want to leave!