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Originally Posted by chaoslord
TS - you seem like a good, decent, simple guy albeit with low self esteem.
Could I ask if you have had any girlfriend relationships before? The reason I ask is that based on your hobbies and work you seem to be introverted in nature.
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As prior mention before, I dont have any past relationship ezperience....
Low-self esteem, definitely. Given reality and realistic life, if you are in my situation, how long can the esteem last?
I don't like and I don't accept advise on Go study get better certificate to get better Job or whatever. Just stfu on this self-upgrading topic.
Let be true to ourself as Man, most of us are just your typical Joe with the average of 4-5.5/10 appearance, however we all desire for 7/10 and above appearance as our life partner.
Nobody will deny/reject this FACT , so let move on the fact that I only WANT 7/10 as my partner.
Definitely, if local lady with 7/10 willing to accept me, I will prioritise local lady. But the reality is cruel, if I dont venture out, if I donht change, I will die miserable and lonely at older age.
If that the case, just walk the abnormal path, I know there will be many obstacle and difficulties in these abnormal path that no sane person will choose to walk.
Yet , the reality is I DONT WANT TO CHANGE myself for the Future just to had slightly better lifestyle. Slim down just because , nobody like Fat/ugly/no money odinary FAT JOE.
Therefore, I will walk the abnornal route to fulfil my 7/10 wife Dream, indeed it might be a thorny route, but if endure through, it will be fulfilling moment. Rather than changing myself for normal route, I rather walk down the abnornal route , at least I tried and willing to put in the effort to attain my dream 7/10.....
As for personality wise, definitely that one can only be judge after meeting. But nonetheless, I have no issues, whether she.want.to work in KTV or used to be a past Freelance. Everybody have their own secret and past, all I need is just embrace it.