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Originally Posted by pitabooom
Its crazy that I have to turn here to vent and get things outta my chest. Married for 8yrs with 1 kid.
During the initial phase of relationship, my gf knew I had other girls before. Being completely honest with her about some sexual mistakes in my life is perhaps the worst thing any man could do. However, looking back, I'd thought it would be good to be honest.
After marriage, initially it was the once a month quarrel. It started from small things - from either doing things a little slow or perhaps it was my earnings, else it would be something else - a mistake from my past, etc.
After child was born, knowing full well that I am not earning a lot; busted my arse working 2 jobs (my day job and a Uber driver) to cover my credit card bills paying off quite abit of bills and avoided touching my wife's money as far as possible. Even then, she had continued on her tirade every now and then. Even to the point of telling me - to leave the house with my child....
Seriously, other than the lack of sex (when u are too fucking tired to even fap and cum; much less sustain an erection) and a single deaf ear (cause of which is unknown, specialists I had visited claimed it may be stress), I am really wondering if she had just went too far and kept asking for divorce on slightest things.
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Well the only advice I can offer is quickly go see a good lawyer, discreetly.
While you are there, tell the lawyer what do you want out of the divorce, and how to safeguard your cash (those in the account) and your asset(s).
The law works around facts, meaning you need to gather supporting evidence usually in terms of records, receipts etc to prove what is yours (same thing for your wife), if it cannot be proven then it could be shared. Sometimes it is better to empty the account first to hold on to the cash and then return back if judge ask you to return.
Good luck.