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a malay uncle greeted me and show me the girls. unfortunately i do not speak behasa,so while looking around the uncle keep on shooting me with behasa[/QUOTE]

Dont get intimidated with tharmidzi (indo uncle hes from medan) hes always like that most of the time, its hes way of talking thou. Actually hes a friendly guy. (I doubt many will agreed) but to me he is, so is atek. Anyway I would suggest any newbie going to new berry with somebody thats my advice thou.