How to have great sex?

[iamnotanuncle]

Sex newbie here, tips please.

[gigey]

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[Xcrossit]

one word : edging.

[romidogdog]

Is a 2-way street, depends on your partner also, if she are those type who don't know how to service a guy or like a dead fish... you'll never enjoyed sex.... Same goes to you too..

[Iamnewgais]

Save up your sexual energy.

[Marlborolights]

Willing to try new styles and ask what your partner prefers.

I got hooked up with a 23 years old (Rather new) freelancer in a club in Thailand some time back and recently, met up again. We became friends after the first encounter.

The first time we did, was rather dull as we didn't know what the other wanted but as part of my SOP, I love to paint and even open her butt crack to lick. She got stunned but told me she like it.

On the 2nd encounter, met up at the club again and both were abit tipsy. Reach back to my room at almost 7 am. I seriously wanted to sleep but she insisted to have sex first. Crazy kissing and licking her body and she just closed her eyes to enjoy. She kept asking me to bang her fast, and I cummed in no time all over her body (She requested), and pulled me back for 2nd round almost immediately, she insisted she still wanted more but I don't her as I was really tired, and promise another round after we woke up but end up didn't, as she was late for work and her mother kept calling her.

After we parted ways, we stay in contact but at times, she will tell me she enjoyed the time with me. I asked whether was the clubbing or the sex and she replied it was the sex.

After which. we told each other what we like. Like she wanted to try sex toys and sexy dresses for me. I wanted to have sex in her car (Yet to fulfill), outdoor sex and etc, fucking facing the mirror, in the toilet and etc. Really wild lady, probably still young as I am 50% older than her.

We met again, but we agreed on what we wanted to try. She wanted some beer as she told me she prefers a bit tipsy while having sex, and I agreed. She bought the sexy dress I requested.

It was one of the best fuck of my life (probably hers too). The funny part was we each bought more than 10 condoms. I jokingly asked her why she bought so many, she replied she was expecting we will be fucking the whole night. We didn't really fulfill everything but it was good enough. The same thing happened, cum all over her body but this time round, she said "No..2nd time fuck, the first time we didn't do it... I want fast and long time" In total, we had 3 rounds that night and my bed was wet with her juice.

Although I still treat it as commercial sex as I still paid her in the end which is much more than usual when she didn't even say any amount. Most importantly, be it whether she is a freelancer or not or I am her client or not... Both of us enjoyed it.

I invited her to join me on an upcoming business trip to Phillippines, and she agreed. She asked whether can go shopping and sightseeing since she never goes before, I say can after my work and I jokingly asked whether we can fuck in the handicapped toilet in the shopping center and outdoors while sightseeing, she replied "Ok. Can.. sound exciting".

The point is communication. Don't be shy and tell what you want and ask her what she wants too. Most importantly, the correct vibe of the partner too.

[superstiffy]

Originally Posted by iamnotanuncle

Sex newbie here, tips please.

boy.. u want user manual ah? then follow step by step ah? why not next time u piak piak with ur friend i go there and give you instructions? like that more effective.. u read here then dunno how to do correctly also useless..

[Yirkin]

Get dead drunk, the sex confirmed great

[Asakura]

that depends on what you watch
it could also be one way to be bad at sex

Originally Posted by gigey

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[xxFTOxx]

School holidays suddenly so many new accounts. Ask all these questions I think the future of sg is bleak. Next time also ask how to put inside lol

[rogerbear]

Originally Posted by xxFTOxx

School holidays suddenly so many new accounts. Ask all these questions I think the future of sg is bleak. Next time also ask how to put inside lol

Hahaha u have to know Singapore sex education is bleak! All is now self exploratory!xD HAHAHA

[oswin]

Be more open to explore, some with alcohol, some have toy and uniform fetish, some need and emphasize on foreplay. Imho

[AnnieYJL]

My personal experience after learning from some “friends”. My husband has low sex drive (maybe 1-2 times a week). So I tried the following

(1) Drive sexily to pick him up (without panties). So when I drive him home, I show him a bit of it and it drove him wild. Sex was great and he did it without stripping me fully

(2) I woke him up by giving him a blowjob when he was about to go golfing or trips with his friends. Lol! Play with him but stopped him from cumming and say “time for your golf!”. In the end, he usually call to tell them he can’t join because he is unwell.

(3) Lately I tried wearing those dancer clothing and do some belly dance. Lol! I then run away when he was trying to touch me. In the end got caught and was banged hard.

(4) Sex after massage inside jacuzzi and shower. Usually starts from me giving him a bj and he needs to release in me before we leave the spa. Haha

My naughty gfs suggested the following which I have yet to try.

(1) Car sex
(2) Outdoor sex (last time I did it with my ex bf. I always blow him: prior to the mass adoption of mobile phone) but not with my husband
(3) Changing room sex (sounds crazy to me)
(4) Sex on plane (didn’t really try but I HJ my husband when we r in business class)
(5) Pool sex (only tried with ex-bf. A bit of got forced)

I find men like the thrill. It helps them with the performance.

[Asakura]

a lot of people dont talk about sex, or have a "review" after having sex
not sure why. and it applies to both gender
its a way to explore each other's interest and find out your sexual compatibility

[SwordArt]

First advice - communication.
Learn what she likes and dislikes.
Every girl is different so best to explore it together with your partner.
Be open to talk about it during and after it.

Second advice - make her feel that you desire her.
tell her or use your action to make her feels that you want her badly.
And some girls are wild, some girls are a bit conservative,
so you have to take the initiative to lead those conservative ones to explore the wildness.

Third advice - give and take.
Don't expect a bj or ass lick if you are not willing to do the same to her.
Shave and clean your tool properly, no one wants to lick a hairy and smelly tool.
keep her satisfied and she will satisfy you.

Last advice - Don't believe so much in porn
Treat it as entertainment and not education.
some position isn't that comfortable, not all girls like rough and long sex.
And they don't get turned on just by you grabbing their ass or acting like a hungry ghost.