Wife Addicted to Chatter

[parrotkid]

Bros, need advise on how to get wife to stop contacting chatters she got to know online.
Before I met and married my wife, she had a close relationship with an Indian doc from India though she had not met him in real life. She felt that he was always there for her when she was going through a rough patch of her life prior to knowing me.
Our marriage was on the rocks some years back when I was suffering from depression due to work. She met up with the bastard while he was in SG for a few days and allowed him to kiss and touch her breasts. I found out abt it and confronted her to which she strongly denied.
Last year, this doc has been invited to SG thanks to our govt's foreign talent policy and is currently working in Khoo Teck Phat Hospital as an anastasiologist. She still keeps in touch with him despite my many requests to stop doing it.
I know what chatters are like. They are just waiting to bed the girls for free. They are going to meet again. What should I do? My wife keeps using him to threaten me all the time. I am about to snap. I can't take the stress and work as the breadwinner.
Help!

[kim-seng-heng]

Hire a PI...her heart no longer with u.

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

She met up with the bastard while he was in SG for a few days and allowed him to kiss and touch her breasts. I found out abt it and confronted her to which she strongly denied.

bro how did you know about the kiss and breasts touching?

[Viridian]

Seems like your marriage is on the rock, you may want to consider having a good talk with her and if both thinks it's not working out, maybe it's time to let go and move on to a new phase of your life....

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

She met up with the bastard while he was in SG for a few days and allowed him to kiss and touch her breasts

How do you know he didn't go any further????

[alan0338]

time to be single ...

[sane]

Y not u speak to the guy directly n make your stand clear? Hear fr both parties be4 making any decision.

[asdfghjkl]

i believe this is more of an addiction.. maybe you can get external help.

[sean69]

yeah.. i'm sure u heard of the saying..

once you go black, there is no turning back...

oh wait, does that only apply to pple of african descent..


anyway, i think u better stand transferring money out of any joint account into your personal account and terminate all the sub-cards..

[Metzloff]

Dear TS

If this Indian doctor is working in a government hospital, he may not be too keen on negative "publicity". Why don't you have a talk with this guy-he may not want to do anything to jeopardize renewal of his contract.

[hamsapkwai]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

o bed the girls for free. They are going to meet again. What should I do? My wife keeps using him to threaten me all the time. I am about to snap. I can't take the stress and work as the breadwinner.
Help!

Call her bluff, tell her you willing to let her go , let her go tell her aneh boyfriend that and see him take off faster than Usain Bolt.

But you must be prepared to really let her go. Anyway wtf you keep her for? She`s gonna let the aneh fcuk her crazy anyway while she`s with you.

[Gambit7]

TS, maybe u can try to work things out with ur wife like talking to her more, treat her better, try to do what she likes, get things back together again. That guy must have done something that u can't provide. That's why she turns to him. Try to have heart to heart discussion with her and see where things have gone wrong.

As for him, confronting him face to face is the last resort u can do here to recover from this if u still want her..

[bail1234]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

How do you know he didn't go any further????

Oh ya ah... I agree

[Subaru75]

Time to move on

[parrotkid]

It's not so eay. We have kids. I love my kids n want them to have a complete family.