Curious question - please enlighten me

[royalblood]

What kind of woman attracts me:

understands who they are into you and not that clingy
i bet girls also want men to be independent and non-possessive. i expect the same with girls. some form of clingy-ness to show me you're into me, but not too over.


a lady who's purely out for fun and will go for something she wants
life is about having fun and enjoying it. both men and women want to get laid with a partner that they find themselves attracted to. both have the freedom to choose and go for what they want.


a mature, open-minded lady who behave childishly at certain times to liven the atmosphere.
most men won't want to take care of a child-like woman. for some cases, maybe it's their fetish. sometimes being childish at times as a form of flirting is alright.

[deludedgal]

I think they dont know what they want and they want what they cant get. sorry if it sounds disappointing. Most guys and some girls tend not to treasure what they have from what i see

[vin2324]

Originally Posted by SA23

Ya....so long as u got the chance to sing, dance and drink u b happy liao. Simple person tat's y i like to hang out wif u

Tks & huggie

Cannot he is taken liao lei hahaha....

Who had taken me I want my 第二春leh...

[nightscreamer]

Originally Posted by vin2324

Who had taken me I want my 第二春leh...

Too many people want you till you don't know who? Lol.... Both you and SA23 really can make my day.... Great jokers... Keke....

[BiRd13]

Originally Posted by vin2324

Hi bro, well said..

Haha...thanks bro

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

Well, like you said depends on what both parties are looking for. Most men would like a lady who is sensible enough to know what they want right?

No. I doubt so... Think man prefer ladies not that 'sensible' over sensible And many of the times, the lady don't know what she want. Or probably don't dare to say it out what they want... Or find way in saying it...

Example: A guy bought a bouquet of flower for his gf during her birthday. What will the girl say? Most likely she will say 'Aiyo..Why waste money? Might as well save the money up and can go holiday or buy some other materialistic stuff...' But in the heart, they are damn happy to receive the flower...

So well, many of times, girl don't do what they think/feel...

[owl888]

I would choose 2) understands who they are to you but very clingy to you

Coz she understands my needs, clingy coz she will love her bf

[nightscreamer]

Originally Posted by BiRd13

Haha...thanks bro



No. I doubt so... Think man prefer ladies not that 'sensible' over sensible And many of the times, the lady don't know what she want. Or probably don't dare to say it out what they want... Or find way in saying it...

Example: A guy bought a bouquet of flower for his gf during her birthday. What will the girl say? Most likely she will say 'Aiyo..Why waste money? Might as well save the money up and can go holiday or buy some other materialistic stuff...' But in the heart, they are damn happy to receive the flower...

So well, many of times, girl don't do what they think/feel...

Meaning to say they prefer girls who are 口是心非?? Don't you think this is a bit too fake?

[nightscreamer]

Originally Posted by owl888

I would choose 2) understands who they are to you but very clingy to you

Coz she understands my needs, clingy coz she will love her bf

Being too clingy don't irk you?

[Coffeecans]

Guess my answer would be I like you for what and who you are.
Doesn't matter which category or type you belong to.
Though I would like gals who are more initiated.

Guess I'll be the most boring guy to be with. :P

[nightscreamer]

Originally Posted by Coffeecans

Guess my answer would be I like you for what and who you are.
Doesn't matter which category or type you belong to.
Though I would like gals who are more initiated.

Guess I'll be the most boring guy to be with. :P

Not boring lah.... Maybe you are those 被动性 lah. Not all guys would like girls to be 主动性 also.
Lady being too 主动 guys would think otherwise isn't it??

[Coffeecans]

I'm more of the guy who initiates but sometimes get tired cos I'm always the one initiating stuff So a balance would be good

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

Not boring lah.... Maybe you are those 被动性 lah. Not all guys would like girls to be 主动性 also.
Lady being too 主动 guys would think otherwise isn't it??

Well if the guy do think otherwise than too bad for him. Which is always the case it will end up with either nothin happen or it happen but wouldn't be enjoyable time.

Haha I wouldn't mind the gal I meet being 主动 what is that word they always use oh ya "spontaneous" did I spell it right. It make breaking the ice easier.

[SA23]

Originally Posted by vin2324

Who had taken me I want my 第二春leh...

Ur 第一春 has taken u liao mah so u cant have another spring

[SA23]

Originally Posted by BiRd13

No. I doubt so... Think man prefer ladies not that 'sensible' over sensible And many of the times, the lady don't know what she want. Or probably don't dare to say it out what they want... Or find way in saying it...

Example: A guy bought a bouquet of flower for his gf during her birthday. What will the girl say? Most likely she will say 'Aiyo..Why waste money? Might as well save the money up and can go holiday or buy some other materialistic stuff...' But in the heart, they are damn happy to receive the flower...

So well, many of times, girl don't do what they think/feel...

Hahaha...金典的金玉良言

[SA23]

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

Meaning to say they prefer girls who are 口是心非?? Don't you think this is a bit too fake?

Tis is not call口是心非and not fake, it's actually call 口不对心and女人心海底深.

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

Being too clingy don't irk you?

Tis is a gd example of口不对心coz if ur bf or gf dun bother to call or ask abt our well being, we will start to complain and make noise and if they start being clingy then we will start to complain also for not giving us enough breathing space. So clingy is gd but not overboard hw much is over depends on individual.