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[damong777]

Bro

If best reach mutual agreement for divorce settlement. Save money and time

As for selling flat, questions are
1) flat over 5 years or not and are you above 35yrs
2) loan is from hdb
3) can you afford a second loan from hdb or bank

Points 1-3 determine whether you can buy over her share or sell to hdb

Divorce is based on what grounds
1) adultery (if u r guilty party, good luck)
2) unreasonable behavior
3) divorce

Only for point 1 and 2, you can get a straight divorce. If not is separation for 3yrs then divorce. You need to build up your case before you go see lawyer. Lawyer if you dun appoint just go seek advice may charge for first session Liao. And please during pre divorce and divorce, dun get caught doing hanky panky...if not just prepare to pay more. And if you can, pay lump sum for alimony for wife. Maintenance for children you cannot Siam. That will be monthly.

Read up on woman character and divorce in singapore

A mutual agreement divorce provided each party settle own legal fees can cost $2k including paperwork. A drawn one will take up to $5k to $20k depending on how times u go family court.

Most important when the intern judgement is drawn up, read properly each line before signing off. Reason is that if u dun understand, u may end up paying more.

Case in note if you are taking bank loans, each legal department of banks have different views of the wording.

[Henrywu1981]

Thanks Bros.

Appreciates the kind help you guys input.

But now she have move back to her parents place with my child.

Haiz Zzzzz

[jameschong1]

u are talking COCK!
no lawyer even Senior QV can help u if u have no solid arguimen or if u have shit in her hand.

instead talk to her nicely or see your MP for help.
the way u talk, I know u are also up to no good or have no $ to show the judge u can handle the child.

jobless? security guard for u as I don't want a idiot to work for me

[Greendevil]

TS, Been there, done it and moved off to higher ground. just note that the flat is only 1 year so has to return to HDB. obviously she is not been sensibly and will like to maintain her lifestyle off you after divorce. The truth is, it is unlikely she can afford to pay off the mortgage herself and since it less than 5 yo, you need to return to HDB according to market valule.she always can apply for 2 rm flat with HDB and get priority queue over it if she awarded child custody.

as for CPF, ask her go visit LKY's grave and ask first. LKY set CPF not for people to split and figh over it, not tot mention you not even dead yet. it is for one retirement so that you need not lived off government when you grow old. if the judge say boleh, ask the judge can you apply for government retirement grant to support you when you old LOL.

[Greendevil]

TS, also you asked for good lawyer to fight for you. i sure we can always recommend you one. let not discuss the fee first, but you need to realize that you have to strategize and provide "bullet", points with evidence, to your lawyer. SG legal case is not like Tom Hanks movie: "few good men" where they go there start blabbering off thin air. Do remember that they still need to work in the legal industry after your case. not matter how good the lawyer is, if there is no point in your case, there is always a lmit how far they can go and will go for you. their reputation is far more impt compare to the money you pay them.

[senters89]

Dear Guys,

I am asking the below on behalf of my brother as he is asking me but I also don know how to answer.

A is married to a Thai girl for 3exactly years, this time the wife go back and said she does not wan to come back again. because she is stress about money.
A agreed to divorce as this marriage had left him deeply in debt, trust me, the amount is sacredly. 6 digit figure.

He had some concerns as per below, if any brother can help with it please advise:

1) his BTO will be ready end of 2016, if he divorce now, will his deposit get forfeited, (his wife is only an occupant ,not owner, because she is only LTVP+)
can he sell on the first year?

2) Under the woman chapter, do she need to give her maintance fee (no child at all)

3) His wife is a aggressive gambler which left him no choice to put a ban on her entry to casino and left him with a huge amount of debt on A Credit card and bank loan, is this reason good enough for the divorce and don get affect by the woman chapter?

I had arrange my lawyer to meet up with him next week, but hope to have some clue before seeing the lawyer.

If any brother know the answer, please give good advise

[Greendevil]

Originally Posted by senters89

Dear Guys,

I am asking the below on behalf of my brother as he is asking me but I also don know how to answer.

A is married to a Thai girl for 3exactly years, this time the wife go back and said she does not wan to come back again. because she is stress about money.
A agreed to divorce as this marriage had left him deeply in debt, trust me, the amount is sacredly. 6 digit figure.

He had some concerns as per below, if any brother can help with it please advise:

1) his BTO will be ready end of 2016, if he divorce now, will his deposit get forfeited, (his wife is only an occupant ,not owner, because she is only LTVP+)
can he sell on the first year?

he will not be able to sell off the flat. the deposit of 2000 will be donation to HDB liao

2) Under the woman chapter, do she need to give her maintance fee (no child at all)

If they marry in singapore then woman chapter apply. But again given his debt situation and she not SG, hgih chance able to succeed to fight for no maintenance fee.3) His wife is a aggressive gambler which left him no choice to put a ban on her entry to casino and left him with a huge amount of debt on A Credit card and bank loan, is this reason good enough for the divorce and don get affect by the woman chapter?

Under unreasonable act yes. but you need to collect the credit slip etc to show that the debt was a result of her implusive gambling addict. but the biggest complication will be that she not in SG, so this will drag the case. best solution is that they both discuss, and once agree on the term, fly over and get her sign the paper work. this help the lawyer to process the divorce faster. the lawyer will be able to guide him and prepare the paper. advice your bro to call and discuss with her. if she agree, just laythe terms to the lawyer and will help to save a few lawyer session and also $ and time
I had arrange my lawyer to meet up with him next week, but hope to have some clue before seeing the lawyer.

If any brother know the answer, please give good advise

please see my comment in red

[Kuan Aik Hong]

Originally Posted by senters89

Dear Guys,

I am asking the below on behalf of my brother as he is asking me but I also don know how to answer.

A is married to a Thai girl for 3exactly years, this time the wife go back and said she does not wan to come back again. because she is stress about money.
A agreed to divorce as this marriage had left him deeply in debt, trust me, the amount is sacredly. 6 digit figure.

He had some concerns as per below, if any brother can help with it please advise:

1) his BTO will be ready end of 2016, if he divorce now, will his deposit get forfeited, (his wife is only an occupant ,not owner, because she is only LTVP+)
can he sell on the first year?

2) Under the woman chapter, do she need to give her maintance fee (no child at all)

3) His wife is a aggressive gambler which left him no choice to put a ban on her entry to casino and left him with a huge amount of debt on A Credit card and bank loan, is this reason good enough for the divorce and don get affect by the woman chapter?

I had arrange my lawyer to meet up with him next week, but hope to have some clue before seeing the lawyer.

If any brother know the answer, please give good advise

Foreign bride also so problematic......FA is still the best choice..

[Pleasure_empire]

Originally Posted by Henrywu1981

Thanks Bros.

Appreciates the kind help you guys input.

But now she have move back to her parents place with my child.

Haiz Zzzzz

She must have solid evidence you did something very wrong.

Good Lawyer?

Ur wife takes ur whole BTO.

Your TOP lawyer takes another half of it.

[korean]

pardon TS to borrow ur thread.

Anyone can pls recommend a good divorce lawyer? I need one in months time

[sanuuk]

Originally Posted by korean

pardon TS to borrow ur thread.

Anyone can pls recommend a good divorce lawyer? I need one in months time

Why in a months time and not now?

[korean]

Originally Posted by sanuuk

Why in a months time and not now?

Need preparation. The plan started months ago actually, some objectives have been achieved. Slow and painful progress

[AppleCoke]

Why not try to see a Counsellor and avoid the divorce?

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by Henrywu1981

Hi Bros. I need help. My wife wants to divorce me. And she wants the whole bto flat. She ask me to give up my other cpf for child maintence fee.

Need a very good lawyer that will side our man sides.

Bro my experience, there is no such thing as good lawyer for man, end of the day we still lose...

Secondly, also from my experience, fight all the way, sell the flat split the proceed ask her to apply her own flat...instruct lawyer and insist on it...my experience, ex took over flat, got screwed by familee cock judge make me surrender 50% of what i paid into flat for her and than cpf force me to pay back that 50%.

but i see your major problem will be your eligibility to sell flat now cos only 1 yo...

[1118]

if MOP is met, why not sell the house away and proceed to divorce. If MOP not met, can apply to HDB for permisson to sell early.