I'm scared

[taky]

today i went to kelantan lane for blood test
the counsellor is a ang mo guy
ppl there very friendly
however i was very nervous, this is my 1st time go test
thank God its negative
he said no need to come for test if use condom everytime and no breakage
and gave me like 5 condom for free
anyone tried their cd before?
however what a relief...
will play more carefully in the future

[beck8]

oh, theirs should be working well. I used it, but the second one, my own, broken, may be kept for too long time. Now in hell.

use it properly should be alright, unless you are too strong and thrust many many times, hehe.

[taky]

Originally Posted by beck8

oh, theirs should be working well. I used it, but the second one, my own, broken, may be kept for too long time. Now in hell.

use it properly should be alright, unless you are too strong and thrust many many times, hehe.

you mean the broken one was given by them?

[beck8]

Originally Posted by taky

you mean the broken one was given by them?

No, I had two given by them. all work well. the one broken was my own.

[peanut123]

Originally Posted by taky

oh so that means the risk of CD is 1-10% OF 0.01-0.1%

Not really. That's the probability you calculate if you are going to bang a girl whom you know has HIV. Realistically, if you do know she has HIV, you won't bang her even if you have a bullet proof condom.

So, when you are going to bang a girl, the assumption is that you DON'T KNOW if she has HIV. The chance that she has HIV is 0.2% ( from 2007 ). Let's up it to, say, 5% (ie, 0.05) to account for WL's higher risk and the fact that the rates might have gone up since then.

Now after you bang her, if the condom is not broken or slipped off, then the rate drops to zero ( 0 x 0.05 = 0 ), since HIV cannot pass through a unbroken condom.

BUT, after you bang her, you discover the condom is broken or has slipped off ( for those of you with small dicks ), then the probability is 0.05 x 0.0005 = 0.000025 ( or 1 in 40,000 chance ) of getting infected. The value 0.0005 comes from the likelihood of getting infected is 1 in 2000 for vaginal sex.

Clear ? Good, now stop thinking so much about it. You want to bang, use good quality condoms with lubrication, and you won't have to worry about it.

[taky]

Originally Posted by beck8

No, I had two given by them. all work well. the one broken was my own.

i see,
sometimes when i use the house CD i also quite scared
normally i'll get the Durex one

[taky]

Originally Posted by peanut123

Not really. That's the probability you calculate if you are going to bang a girl whom you know has HIV. Realistically, if you do know she has HIV, you won't bang her even if you have a bullet proof condom.

So, when you are going to bang a girl, the assumption is that you DON'T KNOW if she has HIV. The chance that she has HIV is 0.2% ( from 2007 ). Let's up it to, say, 5% (ie, 0.05) to account for WL's higher risk and the fact that the rates might have gone up since then.

Now after you bang her, if the condom is not broken or slipped off, then the rate drops to zero ( 0 x 0.05 = 0 ), since HIV cannot pass through a unbroken condom.

BUT, after you bang her, you discover the condom is broken or has slipped off ( for those of you with small dicks ), then the probability is 0.05 x 0.0005 = 0.000025 ( or 1 in 40,000 chance ) of getting infected. The value 0.0005 comes from the likelihood of getting infected is 1 in 2000 for vaginal sex.

Clear ? Good, now stop thinking so much about it. You want to bang, use good quality condoms with lubrication, and you won't have to worry about it.

hay bro thanks for the information
yeah the counsellor also told be nth to worry if the CD is not broken
however how can you tell if it's broke?
can you feel the breakage during sex?

regards

[ItalianStalion]

chill bro your chance is 1/5000. oil cant weaken CD. Durex has always been save so dont worry.

[fatscrewu]

Originally Posted by peanut123

Not really. That's the probability you calculate if you are going to bang a girl whom you know has HIV. Realistically, if you do know she has HIV, you won't bang her even if you have a bullet proof condom.

So, when you are going to bang a girl, the assumption is that you DON'T KNOW if she has HIV. The chance that she has HIV is 0.2% ( from 2007 ). Let's up it to, say, 5% (ie, 0.05) to account for WL's higher risk and the fact that the rates might have gone up since then.

Now after you bang her, if the condom is not broken or slipped off, then the rate drops to zero ( 0 x 0.05 = 0 ), since HIV cannot pass through a unbroken condom.

BUT, after you bang her, you discover the condom is broken or has slipped off ( for those of you with small dicks ), then the probability is 0.05 x 0.0005 = 0.000025 ( or 1 in 40,000 chance ) of getting infected. The value 0.0005 comes from the likelihood of getting infected is 1 in 2000 for vaginal sex.

Clear ? Good, now stop thinking so much about it. You want to bang, use good quality condoms with lubrication, and you won't have to worry about it.

Bro peanut, I am new and have followed the rules to do a search first but of no avail to what I want to know.

I noticed that you have very good knowledge on many matters relating to having a good time. May I ask, what is the purpose of the durex gel, durex O as well as a few others? Are they for prolonged sex? or are they sort of enhancement? Between me and my fb using them perhaps, ok with her but on fl I believe generally they wont allowed I supposed.

I am sorry if I have non related questions however thank you.

[testest]

Why worry so much. All this got chance of something else beside hiv. Ten plus yrs ago i was kind of wild used to do without that CD. Wild nights on sat, ons. so far its' ok. Have stopped it already. Some of my friends keena herps even using CD. AR = hepetites(my spelling fucking bad) A or B chance.

that herps got no cure. so just depends on your luck, but those ons some of them my uni mates so not so bad. The FL one was local so guess i was lucky.

[kwaychup]

Originally Posted by taky

today i went to kelantan lane for blood test
the counsellor is a ang mo guy
ppl there very friendly

been there once to test as well, should be this angmo guy also
very knowledgeable too
says he's been in this volunteer thingy for over 20 yrs

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