Is she Cheating? Please Read - Page 3

hijikata · #31 25-09-2014, 01:57 PM

Bro my take,

confront her then move on. will make your burden less and gone faster.

I had a similar experience as you and I regret I didn't confront her and cling on her till she just totally ignore me. only then I move on... it's a burden to the heart.

GoeGoeGoe · #32 25-09-2014, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Time to get a new girlfriend.

+1 on this.

it is time to move on.

dont hold on to something that is not really worth yr time and effort.

wantanabee · #33 25-09-2014, 02:54 PM

from how you post, you're already showing that you somewhat confirm she is cheating on you. be it mental or physical.

glad you found out sooner. when her feelings are gone, its gone.

tomorrow the malaysia guy disapppear, and the following day will come out a indonesia guy, a thailand guy, how much can you keep up with. its the character to the person.

no point asking if you're good or bad to her and she turn this way because she could have cut ties before getting hook on someone else to be clear and fair in r/s. but her doings shows the character.

move on bro. people come and go, just how often.

volcano · #34 25-09-2014, 03:18 PM

still need to ask meh...its so farking obvious liao....

cosmicgate · #35 25-09-2014, 03:43 PM

Bro, i feel you man. Been in the same situation as you, so i can understand how you feel. From my experience and my own mistakes, i would advise u to:

1) confront her. Depending on her response, which is most likely deny, apologise and ask her for forgiveness but at the same time keep tabs. If she admits, then depends on you.

2) treat her nicely. Get as many fucks from her while emotionally and physically preparing yourself for new target(s). Make her feel that like a princess and that you are the best man for her

3) if enough evidence gathered and you are sure she is cheating. Dump her straight and make her suffer from all the guilt. Who knows, she might be so deprived of you that you could keep her as an FB.

All these were just from my personal experience and how i would deal with the situation. Take care brother, i know how it feels like.

stickyoldman · #36 25-09-2014, 06:28 PM

Got a guy on wechat wife also like that but he keep quiet. Is the guys world changing. His id is altpleasures wechat only I think

tankarel · #37 25-09-2014, 09:12 PM

move on, it will be tough but in the end you will feel better.

Jtjan · #38 25-09-2014, 09:23 PM

Hi there, the fact you can even list down all these points means u already know that she is cheating on you but probably dun wanna admit or cant understand why she will cheat on you with a sissy.

I will try to give you a suggestion.

Go live your life and start dating other gals.
Not necessary to dump her but also not doing this just for revenge. It is more for your self esteem.

If you show you can live even better without her around, you will start to become more desirable. The fact you hang around being suspicious and not letting go will make u lose self confidence and lose yr attractiveness in her eyes.

Show you are better off without her and regrets will start creeping into her mind. And dun ever forgive a cheating gal becoz when she cheats, she cheats with her heart. Cooly walk away... that will be yr best way of handling this.

loo_poop · #39 25-09-2014, 09:28 PM

Sorry bro.

Bad news. I've been through this patch before. It's gonna hit you really hard, but you will get by. A little better each day. But you must purge the poison off your life first.

My ex-gf went on a business trip to houston. When she came back, she didn't even tell me. She then proceeded to fuck the guy right on the day she's back. That was my graduation night in school.

I couldn't eat or sleep for a while. Lost a bit of weight. I was very angry that I got cheated on and it hurt my pride a lot. But little by little, i understood that theres no use getting angry over that bitch. She doesn't care anymore. In life, you make your own game, and the best way to get back at anyone is to live it up everyday. I got a job, gotten real busy, and hey I met a girl who's so much better. The colors are filling back up. I didn't think it was possible, but I survived.

Cheers bro. It's gonna be really hard. But you have to do it. End it.

thedevil666 · #40 25-09-2014, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by loo_poop

Sorry bro.

Bad news. I've been through this patch before. It's gonna hit you really hard, but you will get by. A little better each day. But you must purge the poison off your life first.

My ex-gf went on a business trip to houston. When she came back, she didn't even tell me. She then proceeded to fuck the guy right on the day she's back. That was my graduation night in school.

I couldn't eat or sleep for a while. Lost a bit of weight. I was very angry that I got cheated on and it hurt my pride a lot. But little by little, i understood that theres no use getting angry over that bitch. She doesn't care anymore. In life, you make your own game, and the best way to get back at anyone is to live it up everyday. I got a job, gotten real busy, and hey I met a girl who's so much better. The colors are filling back up. I didn't think it was possible, but I survived.

Cheers bro. It's gonna be really hard. But you have to do it. End it.

good piece of advice.

remember, even if u confront her, she may not admit. if she admit, she may plea for forgiveness. but old habit dies hard. not many will really turn back a new leaf. she may guai guai return to u for a while.. after that maybe go back to the toyboy or find a new one

Falicia · #41 25-09-2014, 10:29 PM

u have to leave your gf

pseudonym · #42 25-09-2014, 10:33 PM

does it matter if she is cheating or not? based on your description, its time for you to move on bro. even if the answer is no for now, sooner or later she will hurt you badly as her intentions are quite clear

boycott · #43 25-09-2014, 10:45 PM

Bro you should have a sit-down discussion with her. Clearly you are being cheated..

She's probably seeking fun outside and keeping you as a steady backup.

godsfury · #44 25-09-2014, 11:00 PM

Forget it bro.. Time to move on. Definately eating outside. This guy also playing with her.

Raineee · #45 26-09-2014, 03:45 AM

Bro.. actually i have been in this situation before. But as a zabor, usually one who won't initiate or lose interest in having sex with their bf, are usually the ones sleeping behind their bf's back and is feeling guilt already.. maybe it will be better to confront her face-on rather than snooping around her messages.