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About the working / changing yourself part...
look, I'm a fat guy that doesn't exercise much and doesn't do very well in social situations. What I try to do these days to "be better" is find small things that I can easily do and over the long run, will change me for the better. One of which is, just go for long walks. I walk around the stadium for about 4km every few days. It ain't much but at least it's something. Sometimes, when I get warmed up enough and if I'm feeling up for it, I will end up jogging too Just do the small stuff, if you don't want to run, then walk. Unless you don't have the time la, then ... a bit hard liao. |
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TS can put urself on rent babe site lo. Its no physical contact paid dating. U meet new people, get paid and kill time. why not.
All else fails, u can always ping me. /joking.
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Mahjong is the answer…play whole day also not boring.
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Get yourself a toyboy if you can afford the service . No strings attached & he listen to all your wimps & fulfill whatever your requests are . Too expensive in S'pore take a vacation to perhaps BKK , there's aplenty . VTL open lioa
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There's a saying if you cant be seen, you cant be found. That someone you crave is not going to show up suddenly. If you really want someone you need to meet people be it online or in real life.
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Another way is to do an alone activity that you like, not like watch tv or movie because when touching moments on screen it will exerberate the lonely feeling. Do maybe long walk, use time to search for places you have not been to, or better yet with a walking group. Or do cycling with a cycling group. You can find many online groups that organise weekend morning cycling and making, that will soak up plenty of alone time. |
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For me, meditation is the best solution to cure loneliness. At first, the boredom of meditation could be unbearable, but I just forced myself to do it starting from 3 minutes, 5 and eventually 8 minutes. After a while of practicing meditation, the quality of my alone time improved significantly. I no longer feel miserable or sad when I am alone. In fact, I enjoy it. Eating alone in a crowded hawker center, evening strolls,
sitting in a neighborhood park, lone bus and train ride, become so serene and peaceful. No need to wallow in self pity. When I yearn for human touch, I just go for a massage. Last edited by oldwabbit; 02-01-2022 at 12:34 PM. |
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Woah. Got a little overwhelmed by the replies and the "fights". piichan is right, I'm asking how you guys deal with it. Looking for inspiration from your experiences. Not necessarily looking for advices. I'm really bad at making friends or lasting friendships, because I tend to hide a lot. Yes, I do have some mental condition going on. That's why. Then again, this is me looking for change, innit?
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I used to work overseas, each assignment was 3 months min.
Some of the places I go, they don't really speak our language, I had to depend on local colleagues or guides but then again after work, you can't really disturb people so it was pretty lonely. I started doing things that I don't really need companions, I hit the gym a lot to tired myself so I can sleep easily, and I was like sleeping 9-10 hours daily so as to pass time. It is cheap, but I needed to save up. after a while I look much better (very energetic), and I started going to nearby towns or countries where I was (mostly alone, with a guide that was introduced by my local colleagues) to explore. Fundamentally, I embraced my loneliness, and then I changed my lifestyle to adept to the situation I was in. I don't know when will my companion will appear, so I just accepted to be alone and made plans to spend my time alone then. |
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There were plenty of lonliness before but no longer.
I have a good full time job, study and do 2nd job. I rarely have time these days to wallow in self pity. Having a 2nd job is effective for singles boredom. I meet many beautiful ladies in all my work and studies and they are very capable and humble ladies. Will let nature takes its course bah Last edited by Brightheart; 29-03-2022 at 12:35 AM. |
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