Is intercourse much different without a condom?

[dunkendon]

I have never had unprotected vaginal sex. I find it hard to come with a condom on it tends to take away a lot of the feeling I think it's due to me being conditioned to getting off with my hand which is tight compared to a pussy which is looser and so add to that a condom as well and it doesn't seem to be as enjoyable as it should be.

Without a condom will be more joyful?

[Fatcharsiew]

u have a wife and u nv have unprotected sex?

[bluecot]

If really need condom, try the sagami or okamoto 001. The warmth is real.

[boyboy1001]

TS , dont use hand anymore , its bad long term

Get a washable masturbator

[NiceNClean]

Originally Posted by boyboy1001

TS , dont use hand anymore , its bad long term

Get a washable masturbator

I second this recommendation. I’ve been praised a lot for my ‘stamina’ by every one of my partners, but it’s really just because I find it hard to cum with a condom on… and just like OP, I blame my right hand and my ‘death grip’. If that’s not enough, I’m also circumcised, which makes my mushroom less sensitive than bros who still have their hood.

You can find plenty of cheap onaholes from China on Shopee and Lazada, but if you have a hundred bucks to spend, the good quality vibrating handheld masturbators really do the trick.

But of course, the best is no condom. Once you go raw, you can never go back 😂

[romanx24]

Originally Posted by dunkendon

I have never had unprotected vaginal sex. I find it hard to come with a condom on it tends to take away a lot of the feeling I think it's due to me being conditioned to getting off with my hand which is tight compared to a pussy which is looser and so add to that a condom as well and it doesn't seem to be as enjoyable as it should be.

Without a condom will be more joyful?

This is a real problem with a lot of younger/middle age folks especially those who been using hand/ fapping since teenage.

Answer is Yes, of course, it should be common sense that sex without condom feels much different than with a condom, just physically different contact/sensations but sex with a condom is not only prefered but also the smart thing if you are doing it with risky person (escorts, FL, ONS, fwb, random sex, anything except for long-term partners or partners who maintain sexual health and don't take risks).

So sex with condom, although less amazing than entering a wet, warm pussy naked, it is not the problem by itself but as you mentioned, the habit of 'hand squeezing' is the problem. And you can train yourself to avoid the unnatural squeezing that becomes needed for orgasm, by using masturbation toys that do not squeeze like a hand, softer and looser, and initially those will be hard to orgasm with, but if you can control your impulses and avoid orgasms until your body will eventually cum using soft masturbation toys, then sex with condoms will also slowly become great and orgasms and sex will be satisfying.

Keep in mind, if you keep squeezing by hand and making yourself trained to cum that way, even sex without a condom may cause issues and inability to cum because real pussy is not squeezing like a hand, it is amazing, wet, warm and cosy, and experienced partner can squeeze the pussy on and off but they can't squeeze like a hand does for long time.

Some girls/women have naturally loose pussy so being able to enjoy in all situations is the best way to enjoy sex, don't throw that ability away by using the hand except maybe rarely once or twice a month if you just can't find a pussy or mouth.

Also try to cum with bjs without hands involved, it also helps train to be able to enjoy and cum without too much rubbing and squeezing like a hand does. Cum into mouths over and over... for me preference for pleasure is in this order:

Sex without condom
next blowjob without condom/cim
next blowjob with condom, her tongue can make it great
next sex with condom
next handjob without condom
next handjob with condom
next DIY handjob least preferred

[Prince Devitt]

Of course different, no condom the feel is better.

[Prince Devitt]

Originally Posted by boyboy1001

TS , dont use hand anymore , its bad long term

Get a washable masturbator

Prince Devitt +51

[bigjade]

Originally Posted by romanx24

Also try to cum with bjs without hands involved, it also helps train to be able to enjoy and cum without too much rubbing and squeezing like a hand does. Cum into mouths over and over... for me preference for pleasure is in this order:

Sex without condom
next blowjob without condom/cim
next blowjob with condom, her tongue can make it great
next sex with condom
next handjob without condom
next handjob with condom
next DIY handjob least preferred

Never tried handjob with condom. ML insist on this?

[romanx24]

Originally Posted by bigjade

Never tried handjob with condom. ML insist on this?

you are right, that is rare or never

[cutecuteboy]

Originally Posted by dunkendon

I have never had unprotected vaginal sex. I find it hard to come with a condom on it tends to take away a lot of the feeling I think it's due to me being conditioned to getting off with my hand which is tight compared to a pussy which is looser and so add to that a condom as well and it doesn't seem to be as enjoyable as it should be.

Without a condom will be more joyful?

How come nobody use the old analogy of “if you dig your nose, does it feel better digging it with your bare fingers or with a glove?”

[bfreemen]

Originally Posted by romanx24

This is a real problem with a lot of younger/middle age folks especially those who been using hand/ fapping since teenage.

Answer is Yes, of course, it should be common sense that sex without condom feels much different than with a condom, just physically different contact/sensations but sex with a condom is not only prefered but also the smart thing if you are doing it with risky person (escorts, FL, ONS, fwb, random sex, anything except for long-term partners or partners who maintain sexual health and don't take risks).

So sex with condom, although less amazing than entering a wet, warm pussy naked, it is not the problem by itself but as you mentioned, the habit of 'hand squeezing' is the problem. And you can train yourself to avoid the unnatural squeezing that becomes needed for orgasm, by using masturbation toys that do not squeeze like a hand, softer and looser, and initially those will be hard to orgasm with, but if you can control your impulses and avoid orgasms until your body will eventually cum using soft masturbation toys, then sex with condoms will also slowly become great and orgasms and sex will be satisfying.

Keep in mind, if you keep squeezing by hand and making yourself trained to cum that way, even sex without a condom may cause issues and inability to cum because real pussy is not squeezing like a hand, it is amazing, wet, warm and cosy, and experienced partner can squeeze the pussy on and off but they can't squeeze like a hand does for long time.

Some girls/women have naturally loose pussy so being able to enjoy in all situations is the best way to enjoy sex, don't throw that ability away by using the hand except maybe rarely once or twice a month if you just can't find a pussy or mouth.

Also try to cum with bjs without hands involved, it also helps train to be able to enjoy and cum without too much rubbing and squeezing like a hand does. Cum into mouths over and over... for me preference for pleasure is in this order:

Sex without condom
next blowjob without condom/cim
next blowjob with condom, her tongue can make it great
next sex with condom
next handjob without condom
next handjob with condom
next DIY handjob least preferred

well said !!

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by boyboy1001

TS , dont use hand anymore , its bad long term

Get a washable masturbator

Originally Posted by NiceNClean

....
I blame my right hand and my ‘death grip’. If that’s not enough, I’m also circumcised, which makes my mushroom less sensitive than bros who still have their hood.
....

Originally Posted by romanx24

....
the habit of 'hand squeezing' is the problem. And you can train yourself to avoid the unnatural squeezing that becomes needed for orgasm, by using masturbation toys that do not squeeze like a hand, softer and looser, and initially those will be hard to orgasm with....

Keep in mind, if you keep squeezing by hand and making yourself trained to cum that way, even sex without a condom may cause issues and inability to cum because real pussy is not squeezing like a hand, it is amazing, wet, warm and cosy, and experienced partner can squeeze the pussy on and off but they can't squeeze like a hand does for long time.

Some girls/women have naturally loose pussy so being able to enjoy in all situations is the best way to enjoy sex, don't throw that ability away by using the hand except maybe rarely once or twice a month if you just can't find a pussy or mouth.....

Guys, thank you for the great advise!
I never realized that the "death grip" is bad because it is unnatural and cannot be reproduced by the pussy.
I thought the "death grip" using the hand is so nice and comfortable. - I really didn't know that I had gotten myself used to this very nice unnatural sensation.
No wonder, I have problems feeling good and/or cumming with some pussies.
I could never cum with a BJ as well. - this is the most likely cause too!

Stupid me, took me 48 years to learn this!
I will stop using the hand right away!

[altec7]

Originally Posted by cutecuteboy

How come nobody use the old analogy of “if you dig your nose, does it feel better digging it with your bare fingers or with a glove?”

Haha indeed.

That's what our dear PCK would have answered on this thread.
Short and simple answer

[francined69]

Raw n creampie 👍