How do you find someone to have sex?

[Marytafe]

I've been having a great life. I hang with good people, I have a nice family, and I'm gonna get to go to a new school later this year where I can hopefully find potential partners who share my interests. The thing is that it's gonna be a while until I can get into the new school. I might not even make it in. It's gonna take even longer to find a potential partner once I settle in and even longer for the relationship to be sex-ready for both of us. I know I've posted a very similar discussion in the Newbies forum, but I'm shifting my focus to primarily casual partnerships, though I don't like to refer to it as "hooking up". I had a focus on having both a romantic and a sexual relationship but I decided to shift my focus since having such a complex relationship like that would be too much at this point in my life. I'm going to the new school to rejoice in my interests and what I want to be when I've grown up. It may take a long-ass time to get to know a possible partner or I may not even find one. Where else can I go to find casual sex partners if I can't find one at the new school? I know there are women out there with sexual needs just like me, and I would like to know a few other places to look. I'm not frustrated or worried like I was on the other discussion, I'm just concerned about my sex life and how I can get along there.

[acidicavex]

if you are women you should be able to find a casual partner almost anywhere you make a post here in the forum you will get a tonne to choose from.

But you are a guy than the odds are against you.

good luck

Originally Posted by Marytafe

I've been having a great life. I hang with good people, I have a nice family, and I'm gonna get to go to a new school later this year where I can hopefully find potential partners who share my interests. The thing is that it's gonna be a while until I can get into the new school. I might not even make it in. It's gonna take even longer to find a potential partner once I settle in and even longer for the relationship to be sex-ready for both of us. I know I've posted a very similar discussion in the Newbies forum, but I'm shifting my focus to primarily casual partnerships, though I don't like to refer to it as "hooking up". I had a focus on having both a romantic and a sexual relationship but I decided to shift my focus since having such a complex relationship like that would be too much at this point in my life. I'm going to the new school to rejoice in my interests and what I want to be when I've grown up. It may take a long-ass time to get to know a possible partner or I may not even find one. Where else can I go to find casual sex partners if I can't find one at the new school? I know there are women out there with sexual needs just like me, and I would like to know a few other places to look. I'm not frustrated or worried like I was on the other discussion, I'm just concerned about my sex life and how I can get along there.

[thedevil666]

There are indeed girls out there looking for casual sex. But it is rare. Girls get to choose. So unless u are attractive it’s hard to attract the type of girls u are looking for.

The way u write, and the context u are gg thru, I assume u are well educated, and a stable guy who have everything planned. You seems to be less adventurous and not out going type. That’s all my assumption.

From friendship pov, what type of people do u make friends with? Are u a very sociable person who can easily make friends with opposite sex, or u are the guy who prefer to stay home or stay in your comfort zone when out partying? If u don’t even have a lot of girl friends, what are the chances you can find casual sex partners?

You are what u are. Your own personality and characteristics attract the type of person that is attracted to u. That are exceptions, but only few people out there have the fairytale life.

[IamGood]

If u ask this type of questions, it means u can only get women to fuck with money only. Reality

[MontageEvening]

Originally Posted by thedevil666

There are indeed girls out there looking for casual sex. But it is rare. Girls get to choose. So unless u are attractive it’s hard to attract the type of girls u are looking for.

The way u write, and the context u are gg thru, I assume u are well educated, and a stable guy who have everything planned. You seems to be less adventurous and not out going type. That’s all my assumption.

From friendship pov, what type of people do u make friends with? Are u a very sociable person who can easily make friends with opposite sex, or u are the guy who prefer to stay home or stay in your comfort zone when out partying? If u don’t even have a lot of girl friends, what are the chances you can find casual sex partners?

You are what u are. Your own personality and characteristics attract the type of person that is attracted to u. That are exceptions, but only few people out there have the fairytale life.

^what bro says here is true. Just be yourself, don’t pretend to be like someone cooler or hotter. Just be who you are, your very own individuality..

[BushTracker]

Originally Posted by Marytafe

I've been having a great life. I hang with good people, I have a nice family, and I'm gonna get to go to a new school later this year where I can hopefully find potential partners who share my interests. The thing is that it's gonna be a while until I can get into the new school. I might not even make it in. It's gonna take even longer to find a potential partner once I settle in and even longer for the relationship to be sex-ready for both of us. I know I've posted a very similar discussion in the Newbies forum, but I'm shifting my focus to primarily casual partnerships, though I don't like to refer to it as "hooking up". I had a focus on having both a romantic and a sexual relationship but I decided to shift my focus since having such a complex relationship like that would be too much at this point in my life. I'm going to the new school to rejoice in my interests and what I want to be when I've grown up. It may take a long-ass time to get to know a possible partner or I may not even find one. Where else can I go to find casual sex partners if I can't find one at the new school? I know there are women out there with sexual needs just like me, and I would like to know a few other places to look. I'm not frustrated or worried like I was on the other discussion, I'm just concerned about my sex life and how I can get along there.

Are you a girl? and you are looking for guy(s) to have sex with? There are loads of people here willing to offer their help.

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by MontageEvening

^what bro says here is true. Just be yourself, don’t pretend to be like someone cooler or hotter. Just be who you are, your very own individuality..

I used to think like that too. But it’s insane to do the same thing and expect different result.

[kombust]

Originally Posted by IamGood

If u ask this type of questions, it means u can only get women to fuck with money only. Reality

agree. if the mindset is already to have casual sex, the easiest solution to that is FL.

[MontageEvening]

Originally Posted by Peacekeeping

I used to think like that too. But it’s insane to do the same thing and expect different result.

Totally. I think it depends on the girl you’re dating, some girls might expect something more from you instead of your personality.

[candeo_88]

Once he is hooked on FLs, he'll come back one year later and post something like this...

"I have heeded bros advice before and now enjoying a wonderful sex life with FLs. But knowing it is not a long term solution, I have tried to settle down and intermittently found myself a few girls, whom I shall term as gfs with a view of a long term relationship. But each girl dont give me the kind of feel and shiokness that I get from the different FLs...What should I do now?"

Originally Posted by kombust

agree. if the mindset is already to have casual sex, the easiest solution to that is FL.

[Klingon]

Originally Posted by MontageEvening

Totally. I think it depends on the girl you’re dating, some girls might expect something more from you instead of your personality.

Very well said bro

[Eminent]

Originally Posted by Klingon

Very well said bro

Fully agreed

[yoursecret]

Tinder.

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[Stellarlunar]

Just go ard and find uh

[manfon]

Is this thread even real? School holiday?