Need advice

[Newbieshag]

Hi if a ML ask you out for supper or to go hotel , do you pay them ? If yes , how much ? TIA.

[sean99]

Originally Posted by Newbieshag

Hi if a ML ask you out for supper or to go hotel , do you pay them ? If yes , how much ? TIA.

should be free right.....if she asking for money, then u hav to decide worth it or not.

[superstiffy]

Originally Posted by Newbieshag

Hi if a ML ask you out for supper or to go hotel , do you pay them ? If yes , how much ? TIA.

she ask u is free... u ask her is pay... by right is like that la

[Samto]

Originally Posted by Newbieshag

Hi if a ML ask you out for supper or to go hotel , do you pay them ? If yes , how much ? TIA.

Just go without bringing your wallet, that's safe for any situation

[Earnestball]

Just have $10 with you. It's co-funding.

[sky_liner2]

Do also ask who is paying for the hotel?

[candeo_88]

Ask yourself:
1) Are you paying for the room?
2) Are you paying for ancillary costs, e.g. meal at fancy restaurant or hawker centre? Titbits? Alcohols?
3) Are you paying the same/minimum fees that you are paying at her workplace? Or more?
4) Are you paying for Grab? Taxi? Parking fees?

So total costs for the encounter assuming a purely transactional basis = 1+2+3+4

But if she has a liking for you and inviting you over because she likes you, then as a gentleman, at least you need to cover = 2 + 4

In the end, how deep is your pocket and how fat is your wallet?

Originally Posted by Newbieshag

Hi if a ML ask you out for supper or to go hotel , do you pay them ? If yes , how much ? TIA.

[Heartlandlover]

Depend on ur relationships bah.

Cos if its boyfriend girlfriend.
I will choose to be the gentleman.
Book hotel buy supper.
Use rubber or not u decide urself.
Shoot inside or not u decide urself.
Go for how many rounds u decide urself.
Lol.

If the relationship is pure business.
Then she might expect something in return.
U can also share with the Bros here if she is good. Help her in her business as well. She might thank u in ur future booking.

[MaxTea]

you mean those old aunty ML at PPC ask you out?

[lawrene]

Are you friend with the ML? If yes, friends go have supper usually pay for yourself. If you feel generous and want to be gentleman, you pay for her loh.
If not friend with ML, then most likely the ML is looking for free meal.
As for hotel, i don't think any ML will ask a customer to go hotel and not expect to be paid.

[loneyheart]

Pay as per sexxion or Fuck On Credit ... nothing is free

[elvin9965]

Her invited u go out should be free. Aleast u must pay all things & u give a bit tips .

[Stiffy269]

If she asks you out then you pay for the dinner transport whatever lor. Some simply wanna have a time out being your FB or friend. I have had a few such experiences myself from decent ML to HJ ML, hardly get anybody from a FJ establishment to ask you out. None of them expected me to pay for a good time. They get plenty of offers every week to go outside for “Fun” that’s paid for, no need for them to open mouth to ask you unless she’s not a looker at all IMO.

[Heartlandlover]

Originally Posted by Stiffy269

If she asks you out then you pay for the dinner transport whatever lor. Some simply wanna have a time out being your FB or friend. I have had a few such experiences myself from decent ML to HJ ML, hardly get anybody from a FJ establishment to ask you out. None of them expected me to pay for a good time. They get plenty of offers every week to go outside for “Fun” that’s paid for, no need for them to open mouth to ask you unless she’s not a looker at all IMO.

Agree some really friend. Especially if she work OT and I am the last customer. Then nearby eat lor. If nearby nothing to eat also got experience I order delivery and eat at her work place since all go home liao left her. No need to order too much. I can afford. Lol. Chit chat. She got wana pay me. But I choose not to take. So really depend ur relationship with the ML. Btw her Boss pick her after we eat. So I dun need to worry abt her transport. No need to worry taxi fare. I walk home. Yes Bros. I cheapo.

[happpy]

Originally Posted by Newbieshag

Hi if a ML ask you out for supper or to go hotel , do you pay them ? If yes , how much ? TIA.

when u ask like this more or less means u got limited resource.

even go out makan u also need to ask

how much can a ml eat ............... how much can she drink .................

when men got no resources, basically just drop whatever idea you are having.