Is it possible to date a girl while engaging escorts?

[chiong1234]

Growing up, I was quite a simple and good boy. Had a couple of gf. Nearly got married with one. Recently I started engaging escorts because I have additional income to spend after savings/stocks/sustenance. Didn’t expect to enjoy it so much. Only problem is I saw this cute coworker that started to hint to me she wants me to ask her out. Despite engaging escorts, I still feel quite lonely during the day. I miss having someone to watch movie, or go hiking/gym/Disneyland with.
Now that I’ve opened Pandora’s box, I don’t think I can ever settle down with any girl again. I will always crave for variety. I want to ask my coworker out for casual dating, but from my track record I know I’ll treat her too well and she will definitely catch feelings.
I find that it’s bad to dump her later once I get bored with her. Does anyone have any experience or wisdom to share.

[asdfkie]

Life is short. Some of us have money, some don’t. Time is the great equalizer. When it comes to women, you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Anyway I have never fucked FL so I cannot comment too much. Maybe those laojiao here can give some advice.

Your co-worker hot? Share some pics leh

[rizwano]

Sure can. Just need to control budget

[fnulnu99]

I have eaten "out" for years during the time I was married. Have done girls from all over the world I can think off. And found that all the girls are the same ie boobs, pussies, regardless whether they are blond, red head or brunette

And this girls just want one thing from you - money. So, it's very transactional. You pay and she reciprocal by servicing you for that short time.

Is this what you want forever and ever?

I have finally stopped visiting any commercial sex or even sugar babes. And I have been in the game for 15 or so years.

It feels good to finally stop trying to "find" the next exotic score.....

My advice is, find a wife material that is also your friend because sooner or later, the spice on the bed may fizzle off but your friendship never dies....

Originally Posted by chiong1234

Growing up, I was quite a simple and good boy. Had a couple of gf. Nearly got married with one. Recently I started engaging escorts because I have additional income to spend after savings/stocks/sustenance. Didn’t expect to enjoy it so much. Only problem is I saw this cute coworker that started to hint to me she wants me to ask her out. Despite engaging escorts, I still feel quite lonely during the day. I miss having someone to watch movie, or go hiking/gym/Disneyland with.
Now that I’ve opened Pandora’s box, I don’t think I can ever settle down with any girl again. I will always crave for variety. I want to ask my coworker out for casual dating, but from my track record I know I’ll treat her too well and she will definitely catch feelings.
I find that it’s bad to dump her later once I get bored with her. Does anyone have any experience or wisdom to share.

[Snuber]

Originally Posted by chiong1234

Growing up, I was quite a simple and good boy. Had a couple of gf. Nearly got married with one. Recently I started engaging escorts because I have additional income to spend after savings/stocks/sustenance. Didn’t expect to enjoy it so much. Only problem is I saw this cute coworker that started to hint to me she wants me to ask her out. Despite engaging escorts, I still feel quite lonely during the day. I miss having someone to watch movie, or go hiking/gym/Disneyland with.
Now that I’ve opened Pandora’s box, I don’t think I can ever settle down with any girl again. I will always crave for variety. I want to ask my coworker out for casual dating, but from my track record I know I’ll treat her too well and she will definitely catch feelings.
I find that it’s bad to dump her later once I get bored with her. Does anyone have any experience or wisdom to share.

"Despite engaging escorts, I still feel quite lonely during the day. I miss having someone to watch movie, or go hiking/gym/Disneyland with."

You already said it yourself here..... FLs fulfilled your physical needs, while u need someone to fulfill your non-physical needs too. There's only so much u can fuck. It gets worse as you grow older. Libido and stamina decreases.
You can also get a FL to go on such trips with u, but at a cost.

Or, you can also find 1 who can fulfil both of these needs, but what's the probability?

It really depends on your own perspective

[alextcc]

All other bros stated here correct, but also think about the co-worker pov, how does it will make her feel? cheated? or how do you feel when you are her?

[asdfkie]

Originally Posted by fnulnu99

I have eaten "out" for years during the time I was married. Have done girls from all over the world I can think off. And found that all the girls are the same ie boobs, pussies, regardless whether they are blond, red head or brunette

And this girls just want one thing from you - money. So, it's very transactional. You pay and she reciprocal by servicing you for that short time.

Is this what you want forever and ever?

I have finally stopped visiting any commercial sex or even sugar babes. And I have been in the game for 15 or so years.

It feels good to finally stop trying to "find" the next exotic score.....

My advice is, find a wife material that is also your friend because sooner or later, the spice on the bed may fizzle off but your friendship never dies....

What happened with your marriage?

[Jamesteo1]

when you are young, u will feel the need to engage FLs and find thrill from it.

BUT as you get older (after 35 years old) , ur sex drive starts to drop so u no longer yearn for skin to skin , u will want a soul mate.

So u may think u will not want to settle down now, trust me, when u grow older, u will start to be "sick" of pussies and u will want to settle down

[Xgenre]

You are not ready for a long term commitment. Breaking up with a co-worker in future is bad for office politics. Your colleagues will be forced to choose to pick a side between 2 former lovers. If you don't see happily ever after with this co-worker, better not to start any commitment. After all, you can fulfil your lust outside.

[fnulnu99]

She passed away....

Originally Posted by asdfkie

What happened with your marriage?

[asdfkie]

Originally Posted by fnulnu99

She passed away....

Shit sorry to hear that! Hope you are doing ok

[fnulnu99]

For sure, time heals very very slowly. Just have to be patient. And keep moving forward.

Trying to be more narrow in the things I want to do. And do only things that are very meaningful.

Come to SBF to read other brother's exploit as a bystander is a good hobby

Originally Posted by asdfkie

Shit sorry to hear that! Hope you are doing ok

[TingSieSiong]

Originally Posted by Jamesteo1

when you are young, u will feel the need to engage FLs and find thrill from it.

BUT as you get older (after 35 years old) , ur sex drive starts to drop so u no longer yearn for skin to skin , u will want a soul mate.

So u may think u will not want to settle down now, trust me, when u grow older, u will start to be "sick" of pussies and u will want to settle down

I m 54 years old and my sex drive is still sky high. I have also settled down with my wife I bought from my Penang customer and and am still enjoying fresh young pussies as i can afford it.

[asdfkie]

Originally Posted by TingSieSiong

I m 54 years old and my sex drive is still sky high. I have also settled down with my wife I bought from my Penang customer and and am still enjoying fresh young pussies as i can afford it.

Bro can share a bit more about how you bought your wife from your Penang customer?

[TingSieSiong]

customer now my father in law. i like his daughter. offer him $ he cant refuse. now I have obedient wife and i can buy young pussy outside she dare not complain