How did we cheongsters get started ?

Sfan · #1 20-07-2014, 03:04 PM

Been reading SBF for many years ...

Stopped for a long time but only recently returned to it. Realised that there are so many anonymous brothers here, all sharing useful and sometimes not-so-useful info. For all you know one of the bros here could be one of your colleagues. In fact I realised there are a fair bit of ladies here.

Just wondering, how did you guys (and gals) get to be the cheongsters many of you now are ?

Anyone keen to share ?

IAMGOD · #2 20-07-2014, 05:56 PM

My secondary classmate jio me go Geylang, and my chengster life begins

Sfan · #3 20-07-2014, 06:18 PM

My cheonging life started quite differently. My teen life was relatively well sheltered, no such " influences ".

Years ago there was this book "No money no honey" and reading that book actually changed my life, it actually opened my eyes to what was available in Sg. Of course I had heard about GL and the old KS but to me those areas were "out of bounds". Bad areas full of gangsters.

The book actually changed my life cos it portrayed the sex scene in Sg as pretty varied and ... normal. Not what I had thought it would be. This was back in the days before the Internet became commonplace.

I actually went down to GL to scout around and was pretty excited as it was as the book described ... the fish tanks, the colored numbers of the houses.

So that book actually changed my life.

To be cont.. If there is enough support in this thread

3someking · #4 20-07-2014, 06:47 PM

Lost my virginity to a ktv gal and no regrets.

IAMGOD · #5 20-07-2014, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by 3someking

Lost my virginity to a ktv gal and no regrets.

Bro how about tell us the story

3someking · #6 20-07-2014, 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by IAMGOD

Bro how about tell us the story

Haaha nothing exciting. In fact normal. Go ktv. Gal jio go hotel.

then thats all. After that realise that losing a virginity is no big deal.

in fact guys dun have a virginity scientifically speaking

conly · #7 21-07-2014, 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Sfan

Just wondering, how did you guys (and gals) get to be the cheongsters many of you now are ?

Anyone keen to share ?

Started cheonging b4 joining SBF... I joined SAF..

Wun bore u guys wif d typical, boys to men stories..

L69H69OKT · #8 21-07-2014, 10:05 AM

Saw Sam spamming soc.culture.singapore newsgroup and clicked on the link. One simple click on an innocent lookibg link, a whole of difference for my dick's pleasure.

nihabaashi · #9 21-07-2014, 12:14 PM

Same here...read the book...no money no honey.....back in 1995

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sfan

My cheonging life started quite differently. My teen life was relatively well sheltered, no such " influences ".

Years ago there was this book "No money no honey" and reading that book actually changed my life, it actually opened my eyes to what was available in Sg. Of course I had heard about GL and the old KS but to me those areas were "out of bounds". Bad areas full of gangsters.

The book actually changed my life cos it portrayed the sex scene in Sg as pretty varied and ... normal. Not what I had thought it would be. This was back in the days before the Internet became commonplace.

I actually went down to GL to scout around and was pretty excited as it was as the book described ... the fish tanks, the colored numbers of the houses.

So that book actually changed my life.

To be cont.. If there is enough support in this thread

heromadboy · #10 21-07-2014, 01:43 PM

How it started out for me was when one time during my teens, I was jio-ed by a group of friends to go to one of the lasup bars along Geylang. Not knowing what to expect, I headed down without much thought. When I stepped into the pub, I was like

Wah, machum like in the HK movie Young and Dangerous.

I sat with my friends, they were all older than me, and I mean like 10-15 years older. That time still young and virgin, didn't know what to do, didn't know how to take initiative. See all my friends got a viet woman beside them, I just blurblur sit they drink beer nia, even charbor come approach also scared and shy. Then my friends pushed me to look for one or they help me to chose. I said never mind, I chose myself. Lol

Out of ego, I chose one to match what my friends were doing - needed to blend in mah.

Then came a viet bu and I took the chance lor. She was older than me, but fuck it, I was basically following what my friends did. From frenching, to teh nehneh, to fingering. I became addicted to that sort of feeling. Ahahaha.

Soon enough, I went to hunt on my own whenever my friends weren't free to come out. I went on from lasup bars, to KTVs (this one only when going in group cos too expensive to play alone), to HCs, to legal houses, even ventured overseas for fun. Sad thing is that I have never had a real relationship with a normal girl before. So yeah, I think it's time. Haha

dieseldfd · #11 21-07-2014, 02:29 PM

My friends have been jio-ing me for years..from my NS days to my uni days. I was never tempted. Somehow one fine day i was just too curious i took leave from work and went to a HC somewhere in the west. The rest is history

hi2u · #12 21-07-2014, 07:33 PM

mine started when I was brought to some JB MPs by some friends. Got to know about specials from there, and the rest is history.
Well, at times I do regret spending monies on those in Singapore, because ultimately, the money can be better use elsewhere, so kept reminding that to myself these days.

NRider · #13 21-07-2014, 08:10 PM

My boss ask me to tag along to a HC some 2 decades back then the rest is history ..

3someking · #14 21-07-2014, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by heromadboy

How it started out for me was when one time during my teens, I was jio-ed by a group of friends to go to one of the lasup bars along Geylang. Not knowing what to expect, I headed down without much thought. When I stepped into the pub, I was like

Wah, machum like in the HK movie Young and Dangerous.

I sat with my friends, they were all older than me, and I mean like 10-15 years older. That time still young and virgin, didn't know what to do, didn't know how to take initiative. See all my friends got a viet woman beside them, I just blurblur sit they drink beer nia, even charbor come approach also scared and shy. Then my friends pushed me to look for one or they help me to chose. I said never mind, I chose myself. Lol

Out of ego, I chose one to match what my friends were doing - needed to blend in mah.

Then came a viet bu and I took the chance lor. She was older than me, but fuck it, I was basically following what my friends did. From frenching, to teh nehneh, to fingering. I became addicted to that sort of feeling. Ahahaha.

Soon enough, I went to hunt on my own whenever my friends weren't free to come out. I went on from lasup bars, to KTVs (this one only when going in group cos too expensive to play alone), to HCs, to legal houses, even ventured overseas for fun. Sad thing is that I have never had a real relationship with a normal girl before. So yeah, I think it's time. Haha

Good share. Ups you

Sfan · #15 21-07-2014, 08:51 PM

Good shares so far, instead of just sharing how we started, maybe can share some interesting snippets you've encountered as well ...

I have been on SBF since 2004, and I have never shared much, beyond the occasional questions asked.

Don't know why but the recent tragedy in the sky over Ukraine made me realise how transient live is, and I have had such a colourful cheonging life, and while that isn't something to be proud of in the conventional sense, I think to the bros here at least, it can be quite interesting ...

My cheonging experience consists of 1900 chatlines, GL 40,150 cats, overseas failures, FLs form this forum as well as regular FL OKTs not from this forum, and even photoshoot models ...

I have bonked probably over 200 gals, costing a huge amount of money ...