FB woes

[donut88]

Originally Posted by DJPY

My own rule of thumb, other than we are in an exclusive relationships. For my flings and fb..I dun fuck any of them more than 3x. No matter what the girls can claim, they always wanted more. I dun like those conversations in bed that starts with …’ so, what are we now?’ Never ends well…

Been through it. It's too emotional draining

In K drama, the Koreans like to use this phrase "Know your place" on someone junior or younger. The meaning is everyone must know his/her position in an environment.

Don't overstep your position

So in FB relationship, both parties must know his/her place. FB is FB. Not gf/bf aiming for marriage or serious relationship

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Current FB loves power play in the bedroom. Loves calling me his slut, while I’m happy to please him 100% in bed within a daddy / kitten kink; he’s starting to treat me literally like a slut at his beck and call in real life too. As in, when I try to initiate a meetup, he is never available, yet he doesn’t try to reschedule either. It’s just dead end. Until the next time he decides to be all enthusiastic because he wants pussy. This leaves me feeling annoyed and upset and yet I continue to meet him after everything’s said and done.

Do you folks (guys and ladies) have FBs like that?

And what do you do to handle it?

seems he just wants sex

but isn't that what a FB is?

maybe you are feeling romantic towards him and he is just having lust for you

for my FBs I will tell them to keep it light, and if I feel they cannot or have gotton too involved, I will pull the brakes.

No point hurting the other person.

But as much as I try to cushion things, sometimes, its inevitable and I have lost friends that I slept with, even though we said we would be okay with it

[SammyLee88]

i tend to have sugarbook.live friend like this too, we even to love to love talk and sex talk to each other

[SammyLee88]

Originally Posted by Lucifer666

Agreed for a male prospective….. 🤣
As for female, getting a male Fuck Buddy is an easy task. But the issue will be when the female develops emotional feeling for the male… that is where the trouble start.

as long as you treat the girl well, she would not make your life difficult

[SammyLee88]

every girl has different character, some girls do like this in order wish to grab your attention

[SammyLee88]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Lol how am I supposed to tell him not to bang other chicks. Come on.

propose to her, hope she will become your only one

[SammyLee88]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Lol I know I’ll probably get some offers here. It’s also why I’m here anyways.

perhaps some girls will give you some special offer

[llpatrick]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Thanks for this analogy. It is a good one.

If you are an option, why bother continuing? U only get your fix when his other options are not available.

Definitely someone out there can be equally/more charming and similarly good in bed, it's just asking and trying
When an ex partner wanted time, despite the bad situation just after CB, I find and make time.
Could be a short 20-30mins, quick sit & chat.. To getting down waiting a bonk, both parties should be able to request for it..

If u are only giving & not receiving what you want, find another, seriously.

Find any name you like, just name it here, you should be able to get a Queue.

[BackstageBambi]

Dear all, apologies for being MIA a couple of weeks.
Read through all your replies and wish to clarify a few points:

(1) I’m not romantically attracted to my fuck buddy at all. So I’m not interested in a relationship with him.

(2) I’m just pissed over the lack of respect. My ego hurts. Period.

We haven’t been in contact since the last time he blew me off and I’m not initiating contact either. So let it die off on its own as I’m not the kind who will put up drama of any sort. Still I appreciate all of you who wrote back. Have a great day.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by llpatrick

If you are an option, why bother continuing? U only get your fix when his other options are not available.

Definitely someone out there can be equally/more charming and similarly good in bed, it's just asking and trying
When an ex partner wanted time, despite the bad situation just after CB, I find and make time.
Could be a short 20-30mins, quick sit & chat.. To getting down waiting a bonk, both parties should be able to request for it..

If u are only giving & not receiving what you want, find another, seriously.

Find any name you like, just name it here, you should be able to get a Queue.

Thanks. Your words hit the nail on the head.

[CyberRod]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Thanks. Your words hit the nail on the head.

I'm a guy and I used to initiate sex with my FB all the time. Until I feel pai seh. I also wish my former FBs initiate as I don't wish to feel just 1 sided. So sis, I feel you....

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by CyberRod

I'm a guy and I used to initiate sex with my FB all the time. Until I feel pai seh. I also wish my former FBs initiate as I don't wish to feel just 1 sided. So sis, I feel you....

I gave up

from scouting and curating fun sex toys, to lots of cosplay uniforms, fun hotels, it was a soccer ball situation- kick me I move

Made me feel like a hard up beggar, so I moved on.

The FB has become just F- Friend.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by CyberRod

I'm a guy and I used to initiate sex with my FB all the time. Until I feel pai seh. I also wish my former FBs initiate as I don't wish to feel just 1 sided. So sis, I feel you....

That’s sad. You prefer the lady to initiate sometimes too. I hardly initiate. When I do, my fb can’t make it and he just cuts me off there leaving me hanging. I’m bothered enough to start a thread on this lol.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

I gave up

from scouting and curating fun sex toys, to lots of cosplay uniforms, fun hotels, it was a soccer ball situation- kick me I move

Made me feel like a hard up beggar, so I moved on.

The FB has become just F- Friend.

Am curious why do you invest in all those things. She likes them?

[TuttiFruitti]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

That’s sad. You prefer the lady to initiate sometimes too. I hardly initiate. When I do, my fb can’t make it and he just cuts me off there leaving me hanging. I’m bothered enough to start a thread on this lol.

Most likely you're both not keen in chatting about each other's kinks e.g. 3some, tour together, couple swaps, petting in cinemas, doing it in secluded places, etc. Very boring fb relationships... Both already very bored with each other already. No new stuff... just go hotel to fxxk. Not doing any other new things together. Tired of each other liao...