What do you think about this girl? Comments Welcome :)

illusionerx · #1 13-01-2014, 02:30 PM

Hi Guys, this is quite a short story and i would like to share about this personal experiences with this PRC Girl (No sex involves, only some kissing and hugging involves only). Appreciate if you all would mind my english. The purpose of this thread is only to see if you guys would want this kind of girl as your girlfriend or wife in the future. I just wanna affirm my decision that all. Hope you guys can give me some comments.

I had this relationship not so long ago and it last only about two weeks. I met this PRC sales girl who is one of my carpet supplier when she visited my office. Before i moved on, i would like to explain that her looks and assets are about (6.5 - 8 )/10 only. Let's name her ZH. Actually, i did not have any feelings for this girl and i only treated her as a friend. Sometimes she would contact me through wechat when she is bored and we will have some casual conversations.

To be honest with you, she is from quite a rich family and she came to study those private university from Kaplan before she went to look for sales job in Singapore. I still remember the very first time she came to our office and she wore like a hostess but still decent enough. From that day, we started to chat and became friend eventually.

Then one day, my company HR told us to invite one of our friends or family members to attend the Christmas dinner. Actually, i have no one in mind, as all my siblings and parents would be attending their respective dinner with their friends and/or company colleagues. Hence, i decided to invite ZH to the dinner and she agreed right away.

Why i had a relationship with her:

During that dinner period, ZH told me she has reached the place and i went to fetch her. That night, she was wearing a long red trousers and white T-shirt. Actually, i was looking at her boobs as it is larger than usual from that day i met her in the office. After the dinner, I actually noticed that ZH were bit drunk after some wine and beer offered by my colleagues. I was worried and i offered her to bring her back home. While sitting in the Cab, she started to lay her head on my lap and my shoulders to and fro. I eventually hugged her in a friendly manner to console her as she was explaining to me she was sad about her past relationships. While she was explaining, i could actually view her two buns from her T-shirt and i could confirm that she do not care about showing her assets to me. To be honest, she was actually half drunk as she was still able to walk and chat with me properly when we arrive her place. Hence, she invited me to her rented room as she told me feel lonely. Hence, i accompanied her.

I'll cut the story short. In her room , she offered me to sit on her bed and she began to explain her past relationship to me which i don't really care. We sat side by side and i could see her boobs cleavage in her blouse clearly. while she was telling me the story, she put both her legs on my lap, and i put my right hand over her shoulders consoling her. Actually, i thought she was very open ,and was she hinting me for some kisses and other stuffs? But i was calmed that day, i did not do any silly stuffs on her but, i had a crush on her. . . .

Why i break up with her?

After some several wooing attempts, we got together but things don't go smoothly. Before i had this relationship, i had a 3 years relationship with another girl and i am still hurt though. I was told by my friend that to forget another relationship is to get into another relationship, but it is only true to a certain extent. I'll explain to you guys why i broke up with ZH and you guys judge. I'll tell you guys what i suffer in this two weeks time.

1. She will constantly bug you about my past gf and her who is pretty? I did say to her she is prettier.

2. She will turn out angry out of nowhere to me and asked me about whether this relationship is suitable for us or not. I calmed her down though after one day will come back to haunt you again.

3. She will think of highly herself and i must suit to what she expects me to say. Eg; I'll ask her what she wanna eat or which places she would like to go, she will get angry because she want me to be firm with my decision when offering her to go to a place to eat? lol

4. She asked me who is the best? I told her not to mentioned any past relationships and compare my past gf , as both are two different people (character wise) and she will get angry when she heard this because she wants me to say she is the best! WTF

The night , she told me whether should rethink our relationship and i told her may be we should calm down before we continue. She then said" She had a decision already and is to break up" and i said "Ok". After a few minutes, she scold me why i never salvage the relationships? WTF?! Then she said to me i should go back to my past GF instead. Of course i was angry, however, i was calmed. I explained to her in an mature way that"My past GF was saying break up was after 1 year of relationship when we had a quarrel. However, you want to break up after like two weeks because i did not call you and that u feel lonely?" After my words, she began to accuse me of comparing her to my past GF and blah blah blah why i never salvage this relationship? From that day, i stopped messaging her and i dun even shed a tear for this woman.

After one week, she message me she would like us to be together again and if i want, she would change and not to be so childish. However, the problem is the way she message, her attitude is that i want to beg her so that i can to go back to her in a relationship.

What do you guys think? Would you tolerate this kind of woman? I think leopard won't change its spots

yangguo · #2 13-01-2014, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by illusionerx

Hi Guys, this is quite a short story...

What do you guys think? Would you tolerate this kind of woman? I think leopard won't change its spots

Hmm your story not short leh..

Anyway let me read thru it slowly and give comment later..

Meow^^ · #3 13-01-2014, 02:37 PM

You have the best answer by asking yourself my friend since you can analyse the whole situation and also what fit you best or what you are looking for.

yangguo · #4 13-01-2014, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Meow^^

You have the best answer by asking yourself my friend since you can analyse the whole situation and also what fit you best or what you are looking for.

Hmm sis you say like no say leh..

illusionerx · #5 13-01-2014, 02:45 PM

I thought story quite short lei, the story not like other Bros here got so many pages to tell about. Anyway, i just cannot tahan this kind of lady, i mean you are the one being so childish yet you wanna act mature and still accusing others . I really dunno what to say.

Meow^^ · #6 13-01-2014, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by yangguo

Hmm sis you say like no say leh..

Because he asked like no ask? Lol.

Anyway, if we search the whole forum, we can find a lot of bros falling in love with PRCs. There are good and there are bad cases. Good only if that PRC really loves you. I am not accusing TS's PRC do not love him as i am not there. Bad only if that PRC wanted to stroke you dry.

TS know her best and thats why i said, he already had that answers.

illusionerx · #7 13-01-2014, 02:56 PM

I just wanna asked about the Bros here if they encounter this kind of woman, would they want or not ? Yes, i have an answer myself, but the Bros here would mind this kind of woman or not? I think to find a person who are in love with each other should not question the other partner with these kind of stupid questions though. They should trust each other in this relationship.

cutecuteboy · #8 13-01-2014, 03:04 PM

My not so morally upright advise -> Pacify her, get her some nice restaurant foods, then follow up by some banging.

Whether you still want to continue the relationship is another story.

Hey.. at least you tasted her nicely yeah.

Luyao · #9 13-01-2014, 03:09 PM

Just my humble opinion, looks like even at an initial stage of the relationship, she is already behaving this way, which is quite typical of PRC women. I am no expert but have the experience of dealing in China since 1990 and also living there a couple of years. Dont get me wrong, there are many good and wholesome PRC women, of which I also know a few. Suggest you give it a good thought whether would you like to have this type of "suspicious" realtionship or not. At this time, she seems unsecured but at same time, i am sure she could do otherwise if there is another person going after her. In short, my opinion is it is not worth it. Find someone who you love and who is able to love you without doubts.

FireInYourHole · #10 13-01-2014, 03:14 PM

can't agreed more with what bro CuteCuteBro said, pacified her, used her, bang her hard and dump her. This type of girl bloody kongkum.... Got guy so good to her and still wanna compare and complaint. If i am you, sure use and throw, boh dai liam , boh hiew lan...
But that is just my 2 cents la (bad childhood with prc thus hate prc to core)
Cheers bro, and there are many better pussy then this type so choose wisely

Gentle Beast · #11 13-01-2014, 03:23 PM

To me, I don't think the issue is whether your girl is a PRC or not. Your description of her character is simply, a young girl who needs lots of attention. A young girl who has low esteem (ok, not enuf confidence about herself on looks, her maturity etc).

If you feel bogged down with her kind of hot-cold behaviour and as you mentioned you have not even started on a sexual relationship with her, my advice is best to let her slide out of your life. If you truly love this person, you would have been able to put up with her 'little missus' behaviour, you would be the one chasing after her 24/7 and spend every waking minute just thinking about her.

This is the beginning of your relationship, the honeymoon period and you are not even excited about the relationship. These are red flags, walk away. My thoughts if you care to know? No regrets

Just move on and don't look back.

illusionerx · #12 13-01-2014, 03:48 PM

Thanks, for the advise guys. Yes, i did try to comfort her and talk to her. The problem with this girl is i've to think carefully before i speak so as not to offend her. I am stressed out if in this kind of relationship. And always keep thinking and repeating herself to me she is the prettiest, which in my heart the prettiest is not on look but true good nature character that the one u are comfortable with and can chat with ease. I know some of you guys thinking, to bang her and dump her. But is not good man, i wan to have some of my reputation though, its not good to do this.

illusionerx · #13 13-01-2014, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Luyao

Just my humble opinion, looks like even at an initial stage of the relationship, she is already behaving this way, which is quite typical of PRC women. I am no expert but have the experience of dealing in China since 1990 and also living there a couple of years. Dont get me wrong, there are many good and wholesome PRC women, of which I also know a few. Suggest you give it a good thought whether would you like to have this type of "suspicious" realtionship or not. At this time, she seems unsecured but at same time, i am sure she could do otherwise if there is another person going after her. In short, my opinion is it is not worth it. Find someone who you love and who is able to love you without doubts.

What do you mean by "suspicious" relationship? lol

Luyao · #14 13-01-2014, 04:36 PM

Meaning no mutual trust..today ask this...tomorrow ask that..then back to the same question again the next day..alway suspicious if you are telling her the truth or not..good luck on your merry go around

illusionerx · #15 13-01-2014, 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Luyao

Meaning no mutual trust..today ask this...tomorrow ask that..then back to the same question again the next day..alway suspicious if you are telling her the truth or not..good luck on your merry go around

I c, ya, tats what i am talking about! U feel me bro!