How often does your wife give you sex?

[Maxlion]

If ya other half can reject u for sex...

No point carry on if u gonna be with her forever..

Sex is meant for doing with ya loved one..

It plays a very important parts in the long run..

[blk437]

Originally Posted by MissyPA

Maybe try taking her out every week to relax. Just the 2 of you. On and off play with her soft spot but no sex. Let her enjoy being wet. Try talking dirty to her at times. Brain wash her to have fantasy. Haha. Can try but no guarantees.

R u married? How many years have you been married?
Talk is cheap.

[JiByeGao]

Originally Posted by blk437

R u married? How many years have you been married?
Talk is cheap.

bro relax la, MissyPA just giving her view, don't get so worked up

[ManInCheong]

Its normal for a couple to have more sex in their first 2 yrs compared to the sex added for the next 48 yrs.
1. You're getting used to each other. You are now, everyday life, nothing special anymore.
2. There are more than 2 people in the family
3. Love had faded or the wasn't one to start with. Responsibilities of female part done...sort off.

Bring her to a trip once in a while...without the children.
It help rebuild relationship but...gonna be harder than wooing her back then.
Cuddling actually helps maintaining relationship much more than talk or sex.
Above mentioned methods are useful only if your wife didn't eat outside by mind or physical or both.
Hope this helps...

[ManInCheong]

Originally Posted by kjjsexy

Hi Ccsor, I can relate to wat u r gg through. Initially I'm puzzled why hubby isn't keen to hv regular sex w me. For past year, I've been hankering after n pressurizing him, he begin to come to me but he can only make it once a week. We've been tog since I was 18 n now I'm in my mid-30 and he's a decade older, so I think, mayb he feels sexing w me is boring. I feel cut-off sexing w him too, as he only takes care of his own needs. I've to do everything for foreplay - BJ, licking even got to do my own self service while he lazily lie there. He doesn't go down on me (said he doesn't like to do it) n rejected my frenching attempts. Recently, I told him I wanna give him a massage n he just said he's not into it. When I told him, I like to parade in lingerie for his viewing, he said he's not into tt as well. However, he likes to watch porn but has recently totally stopped due to my pressurizing. I told him I can always dress up n be his porn gal or game for anything he fantasise if it's within my natural means. He merely responded he is unadventurous in sex.

So it's just BJ and then he will lick me abit and then can't wait to penetrate. Is decades old sex relegated to such unconnected sex? He finds it okie but this kinda sex doesn't satisfy me. Is he behaving normal in decades old relationship or is he abnormal or simply not interested in sexing w me? Do u think I can ever get him to change?

Frankly speaking, its either he have much younger women outside or he turned into a gay.
Other probabilities are you're already not his type or...you ate outside and he know what you did and think you're dirty. Did you learn your skills with him or...suddenly become super skillful?

Worst case scenario is that he's a gay now and making love with you is just a responsibility/job. Try communicate with him. Just prepared for the worst.

If:
You: You got women outside!!!
Him: Anyhow say!!!
You: You got men outside?
Him: .....

Get a lawyer to process the paperwork or discuss with him for alternative methods. Maybe you could keep the marriage going on while he could be with his boyfriend and you could feed some hungry bros here...
On worst case scenario...that is....

[kraam]

i fuck other people's wife to give me sex

[MoeLanYong]

As often as I need

[zhangwuji]

Originally Posted by MoeLanYong

As often as I need

good job Thanks for highlighting ! Will take note!

[maxman]

If the marriage is childless and wives are not interested in having sex with their husbands, it is only likely to become worse when they become mothers.


The sleepless nights, dwindling libido and ruined social life, but couples rarely anticipate the full impact of a new child on the strength of their marriage. "Having a baby, in the vast majority of cases, is like throwing a hand grenade into your marriage, and there is a sense of shame in admitting it. Women are programmed to put the baby first; the survival of the human species has depended on it, which inevitably places a strain on a marriage. Sex lives suffer, which creates a huge gap."
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/ar...-marriage.html


Having a baby wrecks couple's relationships, hampers their sex lives and affects their work, according to a survey published today. 80% of mothers surveyed said that lack of sleep was a common cause of arguments and 60% admitted that the strain of continually waking in the middle of the night to feed their child had all but eliminated their libido. 90% of mothers over 34 said that their relationship had been adversely affected by the birth.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/ukne...nd-career.html


Sometimes, in a relationship without even being married, sex drives can be knocked down by stress hence reducing frequency of sex. I'm sure some of the unmarried men and women, especially those who cohabitate, know what I mean if they have experienced it themselves.

[weihc]

damn... I guess I better enjoy while it last.
been with my wife for about 2 years... in between married for less than 1 year. sex has been great, where we have it every other night. weekends or vacations more...

but after reading replies here and talking to my married friends... am seriously worried when kids come into play in future.

[hornyhubby]

http://sbfjust.rocks/showthr...=539283&page=6

For those whose sex frequency has taken a dive, read that post and try it. !!!!

[maxman]

Originally Posted by hornyhubby

http://sbfjust.rocks/showthr...=539283&page=6

For those whose sex frequency has taken a dive, read that post and try it. !!!!

I'm sure most men prefer having real action over self-pleasuring hand action

[hornyhubby]

I am referring to post #78.....

PLAY VIDEO for partner to see to turn her on la.

[Lennyberg]

3-5 times a week before kiddo came along. now.. once a week if i am lucky. once a fortnight is a more realistic count. she going back to work next week after a 7 month break when kiddo came along. so i anticipate a drop from our once a week or fortnightly.

we shall see.

[jarth17]

Me worst, once in a blue moon. Guys, when is the next blue moon?