How many times?

hickeybites · #1 09-03-2011, 08:03 AM

Can men cum more than once or twice during lovemaking?
Reason I'm asking: hubby loves to cim & I quite enjoy it myself; of cos he returns the favour - one fav position is the 69.
however i really get off with penetration & i prefer actual cock over vibrator
usually hubby is done after cumming once & he does unload quite a bit after cim

any advice/ tips that i can do to make hubby hard again after he cim?
maybe i'm being greedy here...

BiRd13 · #2 09-03-2011, 02:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hickeybites

Can men cum more than once or twice during lovemaking?
Reason I'm asking: hubby loves to cim & I quite enjoy it myself; of cos he returns the favour - one fav position is the 69.
however i really get off with penetration & i prefer actual cock over vibrator
usually hubby is done after cumming once & he does unload quite a bit after cim

any advice/ tips that i can do to make hubby hard again after he cim?
maybe i'm being greedy here...

I think basing on age, and individual...
One can cum more than 3 times per day or some, even 10 times during young time (20+)

There's many types which can make your hubby hard again...
One of them is taking pills... (Such as revival), but dun think it works for long term wise.

Otherwsie, its exercise

Ronsee · #3 09-03-2011, 02:54 PM

My Advice:
Go to a HIGH CLASS Book Store and do some READING up on your question i m sure SBF does not have the answers you seek.

IwantbustyKim · #4 09-03-2011, 03:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hickeybites

Can men cum more than once or twice during lovemaking?
Reason I'm asking: hubby loves to cim & I quite enjoy it myself; of cos he returns the favour - one fav position is the 69.
however i really get off with penetration & i prefer actual cock over vibrator
usually hubby is done after cumming once & he does unload quite a bit after cim

any advice/ tips that i can do to make hubby hard again after he cim?
maybe i'm being greedy here...

Hahaha..well i noe of friends who mast can shoot more than 5 times in one seating until they shoot blanks....but its not during sex...maybe sex is more exhaustion...

owl888 · #5 09-03-2011, 03:03 PM

TS, ask ur hubby to control his cum. I tried holding back first shot to enjoy the second shot within an hour

hickeybites · #6 09-03-2011, 03:39 PM

thanks guys for the tips.
er... i prefer this sbf anonymity & am too shy to browse in a bookstore health-sex section alone. have googled too but found some literature a bit clinical. don't want to offend my man by asking & giving him wrong idea - he's a great lover

well we are in our mid-30s.
and i do worry that i'm not pleasing my man enough... i just have this impression that guys can come more than once. few times with ex-fb also proved so -- but on hindsight it was more that he's good.. i remember back with horror that i was quite a lousy lay in the past (very shy & a bit prudish)

Tenet · #7 09-03-2011, 04:54 PM

Why not just blow him for about 10 to 15 mins and then climb on him and cowgirl ? Then when he is about to come, do cim.

Lefegordon · #8 09-03-2011, 05:25 PM

15 to 25yrs old 10min
25 to 35yrs old 30min
35 to 45yrs old 60min
45 to 55yrs old 120min
55 to 65yrs old 240min

CawaBunga · #9 09-03-2011, 06:07 PM

Mid 30s, so about half an hour to an hour rest, a guy can be ready for second shot. But it can be slightly harder to rise up. A girl doing self gratification always gets me up for second shot

Canoneos · #10 09-03-2011, 08:11 PM

I'm in my early forties and can cum a couple of times but only if I rest for around half an hour to an hour between. The problem for men is that after orgasm, the penis gets quite sensitive and there is a big drop in sex drive. For me, it takes quite a bit of effort to come the second time and usually requires dirty talk from my wife! Also, with age, I need to abstain for a few days before being able to shoot twice in one session.

Goldmonkey · #11 09-03-2011, 09:43 PM

Definitely can. Just let your man rest a bit longer. In the meantime have some foreplay with him. Tease him abit here and there . Play with his dick and in no time his dick should be erected for a second round.

Arnold66SG · #12 09-03-2011, 10:05 PM

My trick: relax when shooting. If tense up, the feeling is great, but it overloads the nerves. Just relax, the feeling may not be so intense, but after 3 or 4 shots, the feeling builds up.

yangguo · #13 09-03-2011, 10:19 PM

Agreed with bro BiRd13, the guy's age plays an important part in the number of times he can cum in one session.

For me, I can cum 2-3 times in one session when I was a teenager but now I usually dont have the mood and "stamina" to go for 2nd round although I am only in late 30s.

roccotheman · #14 09-03-2011, 11:16 PM

wait ten to twenty mins after first cum, need to rest one. maybe longer if he tired. dont let him put back clothes after first cum. be naked then play a bit until he hard again.

missyqueenie · #15 09-03-2011, 11:25 PM

try letting him rest for 30 mintues before trying to get him up again. Past experience tell me it isnt hard for the guy to do a 2nd time in most cases if you turn him on enough. Somehow u might not be pleasuring him enough actually, try doing a blowjob , must guy cant resist it if you do it correctly